Another secret of female charm and charm - woman's voice. It can be sonorous, sexy, thin, breathy, gentle, but never hoarse, smoky, shrill, deaf, or grouchy. It may be different, but it must be natural, because it is yours.

The voice of any person - male or female - is not only our means of communication with people, the disclosure of our creative potential, but the voice is also associated with our sexuality. Can we control our sexuality and our voice?

Through the voice, a woman expresses the power of love. If she often swears, swears, she destroys the harmony in herself and around herself. In a conversation with a man, it is better for a woman to speak in a quiet, soft, calm voice. Such a female voice fascinates men, and evokes romantic dreams and fantasies in them. Negative voice vibrations can destroy a man and your relationship. And it's not about what to say, but how to say it.

Words with voice work wonders. They can inspire a man and move him to exploits. But here you can't do without trust. When a woman loves and trusts a man, her voice sounds very penetrating. And a man understands a woman from a half-word, from a half-look, even when she is silent, her facial expressions express all emotions.

The woman enjoys the process of communication. This is her essence. Therefore, long phone calls are so important for a woman.

To reveal her sexuality, her voice, a woman needs to sing. This is not necessarily choral or a cappella singing. A woman can simply hum songs to a child, or hum melodies under her breath. If a woman does not sing and talks little, she blocks her emotions. A very good outburst of emotions occurs at weddings, in companies - even if there is no voice, no one will hear you anyway in the general choir of voices.

But in the old days, women always sang: at weddings, lullabies to their children. The mother's voice affects the child in a special way. If you are talking to him, but he does not listen, then when you start to sing, the child usually falls silent and listens with great attention - this is exactly what happens to me.

And songs can also inspire a man to exploits. It's a pity that not all men can appreciate women's songs. The song is not only the transmission of words by voice. This is the expression of your thoughts. And if the voice comes from the heart, it resounds in the hidden corners of a man. No wonder they say that a word can kill a person, but you can raise it to heaven.

How to speak so that a man hears you? Try talking to a man in a low voice coming from the heart - and he will hear you. A real woman will never stoop to squealing or grumbling.

If you're arguing, yelling at each other, and feeling like you're on the verge of a breakdown, try this: stop, breathe in three times, and say the phrase in a low, quiet voice. The reaction will be stunning. You can forget about the quarrel.

There is another little trick - nothing has such a magical effect on men as a whisper. It makes a woman seductive and allows you to approach a man, touch his cheek or ear. It will not leave indifferent any man. Just do not hiss at him, otherwise you can achieve the opposite effect and pass for a witch.

And one more thing: laugh more often. Laughter brings good luck. A laughing woman is nothing more joyful for a man. It's because he amused you (so he thinks)!

Speak sincerely, speak from the heart - you will be heard and you are provided with men.

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18/06/08, black monk
The voice is a unique feature of each person. Therefore, one cannot blame a person for having a voice that is somehow not like that. As for girls, I like it less when they have a very high voice. It just makes my ears wilt.

19/06/08, Princess Viper
Because I have a low voice, although at the institute they told me that I artificially lowered it ... (and in this they say that I have a wooden tone from some province) yes, sometimes I write, but who is now without sin? )

19/08/08, Polimeraza
Low voices are more pleasing to the ear, not annoying, and such a person is taken more seriously. I also have a low voice, sometimes I even lower it on purpose - then it turns out to be a bass! But I can for fun and squeak like a 2-month-old. kitty, so everyone is freaking out :)))

19/08/08, Ravenheart
I have always dreamed of a low voice in control, but nature has deprived me of a stupid mezzo-soprano... Look, now almost everyone has high voices! And list those who have low voices? Well? That's right, there are VERY few of them now, especially in music. I don’t know about sexuality, but when a low female voice sings (however, when she speaks), it sounds very beautiful and cool. Ehh, make me a low voice...(((((

05/01/09, Letzte Instanz
Low, velvety, enticing and sexy. Well, not a squeal and not a squeak! I have a low voice, I didn't like it before, but they convinced me) By the way, most of the singers that I like are with low voices, or they sing best low (Lisa Gerrard's solo album - Mirror Pool - is a great example).

05/01/09, Spongebob's girlfriend
Yes ... Such a low, chesty, erotic ... Such a voice will not only decorate a girl, and a guy will decorate, without talking) By the way, girls with such voices are hired to work in an organization for phone sex, and then they understand must be an erotic voice...)

14/05/09, Too lazy to invent a nickname
It's me and I like my voice. As a child, I was constantly confused with my mother on the phone, because it was strange to hear a hoarse low voice on the phone from a 10-13-year-old girl. True, there is a drawback - as a child I sang well, I had an ear for music and a voice (for this, however, I was almost forcibly dragged into the choir at school - it was so infuriating!), Therefore, both disappeared. At the age of 12, I could still sing in a high voice, and by 13, this opportunity was gone altogether. Then I also started smoking, but this did not affect my voice, as it was low and has remained to this day. Some people say that my voice does not suit me - I'm so fragile, make-up, the image is often a la Barbie, they expect to hear a half-childish squeak. This is my piquant feature that pleases me - the contrast of appearance and voice. This is my highlight. I also read that many actresses started smoking for the sake of a rougher voice, it is considered sexy ... So I was lucky.

25/07/09, animalize
Girls with a low voice are more pleasant to listen to, because. it doesn't hurt the ear. For example, I have a very low voice, and no one has complained yet! I have to tense up a little when talking to strangers, but I still think that this is more of a plus than a minus ...

22/10/09, Anemic Royalty
Sexy :) Individually. I especially like it when a girl is fragile, small, and she has such a voice.

25/04/10, Jenya999
Most likely respect. I am 16 years old. My voice started to drop when I was 12, but it wasn't as noticeable yet. I am quite satisfied with my voice, I even want it to be a little lower. To be honest, I don't like a female high voice.

01/06/11, Dima V B
Because a low voice gives some authority to the listeners. I do not want to say that I discriminate against people by their voice - and a girl with a high voice can be a strong personality. But it seems to me that it is easier for women with low voices to be public people, doing, say, business or politics. I also like to listen to singers, especially singers of Russian chanson, with low voices - it gives charisma. But I don't like too low a male voice - it's too rude.

11/12/11, liza love
If the voice is low but at the same time soft, deep and velvety, then it is very beautiful, but if the voice is just rough, then it is annoying!!!

02/09/13, Caramel with Vanilla
My co-worker who smokes has a rather deep voice, but she is also sweet. responsive and experienced lady. I like her "buzz" with hoarseness.

04/11/13, SovaAlesha
That my voice is low for a girl. I began to suspect at the age of 14, when I started singing - and I couldn’t sing high parts, but low voices like those of Arbenina or even Cher, for example, with a bang. When I came to the vocal studio, as soon as I said hello, they told me: "Oooh, and here the contralto came to us," and they gave the lowest parts. This year (I'm 19), a girl friend told me that I have a rough voice. I have already developed a complex in myself. Then I met an old acquaintance with whom I had not communicated for a long time - he later complimented me that I had a gorgeous voice, so pleasant, low, velvety. Then another friend said that my voice is sexy (I was embarrassed, but it was nice). And today a new acquaintance also told me that such voices used to be his weakness (now he is married). From the foregoing, I concluded that he can confuse girls. but men prefer a low, velvety and insinuating voice more than a high one.))

11/01/14, Incorruptible Themis
I have a rather low voice myself. I don’t see any sexuality or other nonsense in this - it just sounds good, meaningful, calm, pleasant, without any vile woman’s squeals and tpsh intonations. Moreover, if I have a conversation in which something annoys me, angers me and I somehow scold the interlocutor, then the voice becomes lower and lower)

11/01/14, summer breeze
If only natural low timbre. Not smoky, not hoarse, just low. Such a person is much more pleasant to listen to than a voice that is too high. Itself would like to have a pleasant low timbre. I myself have a rather high voice, there are squeaky notes when I start raising my voice. In general, I love the low voices of both women and men.

11/01/14, Egor Akhmelyuk
Not hoarse, just low. Calm, cool. Against the background of the fact that the girl herself is not a gopota and is not smoky. She had such a voice, yes. And it suited her very well. But her essence did not justify her voice. A pleasantly rattling instrument of torture.

19/01/14, Anita32
I am 15 years old, everyone says that I have a deep voice. I don't really like listening to recordings of my own voice (probably because I hear a completely different voice). But after reading so many nice reviews, my complex began to recede. I don't smoke, I don't drink, just a low voice, even a little velvety. Just like many others, I can’t sing high songs, I don’t do vocals. But when I shout at someone and get annoyed, there is such a nasty squeak that everyone literally covers their ears with their hands. Maybe I can break glasses with my voice? But anyway, thank you all for such feedback =)

07/04/14, Frigg av Skogen
I have the deepest voice. I don't smoke, he's like that by nature. Indeed, low voices are more pleasant to listen to. When I was at school, I had 3 classmates whose voices were simply impossible to listen to - they were too squeaky.

07/04/14, Maritbjorgen
To me, it's much better to have a contralto than to have a squeaky voice. I also have a rather low voice, more precisely, it is average in itself, but if I wish, I can lower it almost to a masculine one. And speak and sing, almost like a man. I like low voices in music. In particular, the vocalists of gothic and metal bands. Like Francesca Nicolli, Morgan Lacroix, Eliza Martin... I think it's very beautiful. A low, rough voice in a woman immediately creates the impression of a strong nature, not a weak, not fragile, not a pampered refined young lady, but a strong, self-sufficient, respectable woman who will be spoken to as an equal, and not nursed. Although, of course, all sorts of votes are needed. And high and gentle voices often sound very beautiful too. But for me, according to my inner state, a low voice definitely suits me better.

15/04/14, Pencil
When I don’t like very low, but I like medium-low (I don’t know how else to put it) very much. I also like it when women do not chatter. The insinuating low voice of women fascinates me.

09/07/14, NOTDEAD
I have a very low voice. I used to be embarrassed about this, and when I spoke, I deliberately raised my voice, it was not easy. Then it became clear, if by nature I am like that, then why break myself? True, gifted guys often ask: "What's wrong with your voice? Do you smoke?" That's when such idiots meet on the way, then self-esteem falls. And by the way, I don't smoke.

22/07/14, Catshredder
In general, this is part of the evolution: women used to have more feminine voices, as well as, on average, more feminine figures. Now women's voices have become lower, and there are many not very feminine figures, and there are fewer and fewer areas of activity in which there are no women. Is it good or bad? Neither one nor the other is just evolution, the development of mankind along such a path. It is believed that in men, on the contrary, on average, the level of testosterone decreases from generation to generation - that is, men, as it were, become less masculine. Maybe it is, but why then is society becoming more and more corrupt? Returning to the subject, I will say that if a girl is sexy, then I don’t care what her voice is. My hottest girl had a deep voice and I was great with her. The voice is far from the most important thing. After all, healthy non-smoking and non-drinking girls still do not have voices so low that they are comparable to men's, so this factor does not matter at all.

Incredible Facts

Scientists say that men with a hoarse voice are the most attractive and sexy for the opposite sex.

Men are attracted to women who seem to speak with a breath.

Female sexy voice

The actress, as you know, fascinated everyone with a high, enveloping notes, voice.

Very memorable was the way the actress spoke with a breath. It was this manner of singing and speaking that simply struck the men on the spot. A connection was established between the attractiveness of the female timbre and the size of the body of the owner of the voice.

As a rule, these are women of medium build. It is these representatives of the fair sex that are most attractive to men.

Low male voice

Women are attracted by the owners of a pleasant low voice with a characteristic hoarseness. At the same time, the timbre should also be deep enough.

Scientists say that a rather tall man with a low voice is ideal for the opposite sex. However, tall does not mean big. Beauty should be courageous, but not aggressive.

Returning to women, it is worth noting that Dr. Yi Lu (Yi Lu) says that the highest voice is an indicator of a woman's sexuality.

At the same time, it should not be too high, so as not to give off "squeaky", characteristic notes of hoarseness should be caught in the timbre of the voice. Hoarseness in the voice and breathy speech is almost a hundred percent guarantee that a man will go crazy for such a woman.

Of course, the parameters of the female figure are also important. Petiteness, ideal body proportions and, of course, a recognizable voice turned Marilyn into a real sex symbol of the century.

Women, in turn, prefer men who are taller than them, physically stronger with an accentuated hoarseness in their voice, which gives them masculinity. However, excessive aggressiveness in external data, not only does not attract the weak half, but, on the contrary, repels.

A number of studies have been conducted involving both sexes. The results were quite interesting, albeit quite predictable: in the company of an unfamiliar beautiful woman, single men lowered their voices to attract her attention. Psychologists say that the stronger sex does this on a subconscious level.

New studies confirm the results of previous melons obtained in the course of observations. In 2010, psychologists from Albright College, Pennsylvania, US also proved with numerous examples that men and women change their voices to attract the opposite sex.

Moreover, representatives of both sexes change their voice downwards. The results of this study broke the stereotype that most women try to speak in a higher voice to attract the opposite sex.

On the contrary, they artificially lower the timbre of the voice, adding to it attractive notes of hoarseness. Indeed, this technique works especially when meeting on the phone, when the girl does not have the opportunity to flirt in her usual way: smile sweetly, innocently flap her eyelashes.

The sexiest women in the world

Sexuality is not just beauty, it is also a kind of highlight that can distinguish a woman from the crowd of numerous beauties. It is thanks to this very zest that the following women entered the list of the sexiest women of the 20th century.

Photos of the sexiest women:

1. The first line rightfully belongs to the incomparable Marilyn Monroe. A recognized sex diva of the last century, she still excites the imagination of men with her forms and memorable gentle voice.

2. Cindy Crawford . The fame of the beauty was brought by a spicy mole above the upper lip. It is worth noting that it was this mole at the beginning of the journey that prevented Cindy from building a career. Several times the girl was asked to remove it, to which she refused.

3. Pamela Anderson . The girl became the living embodiment of the Barbie doll of the early 90s, when the cult of silicone and artificial beauty prevailed in the world.

4. Monica Bellucci . The typical Italian beauty of the actress conquered the entire male population of the planet with its brightness and naturalness. For many, this beauty is the embodiment of what a true woman should be.

5. Jennifer Lopez . It's no secret that the highlight of a sultry Latin American is the most prominent part of her body, which, by the way, its owner insured for a large sum of money.

6. Milla Jovovich . This American actress of Russian-Montenegrin origin has the characteristic high stature of the model and the correct proportions of the body. Mila is very popular, both among famous directors and among major advertising agents. The girl is the face of popular cosmetic brands, as well as the leading role in a number of Hollywood films.

7. Madonna . This miniature beauty has been conquering everyone with her amazing voice and extraordinary body plasticity for decades. Its popularity is comparable only with the popularity of pop king Michael Jackson.

8. Naomi Campbell . The highlight of the "black panther" - her hot temper and unpredictable character. Apparently, there are men who like the passions that she creates. In the press every now and then there are details of various stories that happen to Naomi due to her intemperance.

9. Brigitte Bardot . The French actress at one time conquered the whole world with her unusual and at the same time, natural beauty. Blond Bridget has been the standard of female attractiveness and sex appeal for many decades.

10. Audrey Hepburn . The angelic beauty of the actress, her touching childish spontaneity became exactly the highlight that did not leave indifferent any man when Audrey appeared on the screens. Her huge eyes, sweet smile touched the hearts of the audience and made the entire male population of the planet fall in love with the actress.

What voices do men like?

Romantic ideas about the perfect couple draw us a tall man with a low, hoarse voice, and a fragile woman with a high, gentle voice. This picture has a real biological basis. According to statistics, men with deep voices have more children than "tenors": with an increase in testosterone levels in men, the tone of voice drops. In women, during ovulation (that is, at a time favorable for conception), the general tone of the voice rises (as a result of an increase in the level of estradiol, the female sex hormone). That is, by virtue of ancient natural laws, women subconsciously look for partners with a low voice, and men are “drawn” to the owners of high voices.

And (oh, how often I hear this!) men break their voices, trying to sound lower, “sexier”, and women, in the presence of a potential partner, unconsciously “raise” their voice. But the result, alas, most often does not meet expectations. A man who artificially lowers his natural tone of voice looks ridiculous: such attempts to give himself masculinity are like the desire of a frog to swell up to the size of an ox, and can only cause a smile in women.

And an artificially high female voice, as a rule, irritates men: instead of “cute chirping”, you get lisping, and hysteria is heard in rising intonations. How to bring your voice closer to the “ideal”, so that it attracts, rather than repels your partner?

First of all, allow yourself to speak naturally. What does your voice sound like when you sigh in relief, or moan, or yawn? This is your natural voice: get used to it! Perhaps you don’t like it, it seems “rude”, not “corresponding to standards”, but when you believe that this is your voice, it will already be possible to “agree” with it. Teach him to obey, to sound louder, quieter, higher, lower, louder, more transparent ... A natural voice will never cause irritation or ridicule in your interlocutor, because he, the voice, is a reflection of your soul, broadcasts your openness, sincerity, readiness for contact.

Can you change your voice? (voice exercises)

Change - no, adjust - yes.

How technically to achieve such a sound?

1. Hold your palms in front of your open mouth and, as in the cold, warm them with your breath: the hotter your breath, the more your larynx is open and, accordingly, the closer access to the lower resonators, which give depth and volume to your voice. Do not try to breathe loudly and strongly, let your breath be light and hot.

2. Then, keeping the same feeling, add some sound to the breath. Gradually turn up the volume as long as the warm breath persists.

4. When you master this exercise, add separate syllables to the voice stream, into the vowels O, A, then E, U, I. Do not forget about the “hot spring”!

5. And finally, move on to words and phrases. Your speech will be not only gentle, but deep and melodious.

Give your voice at least ten minutes a day, and the result will not be slow to affect. A voice filled with breath sounds penetrating, echoes in the depths of your interlocutor's consciousness, awakens feelings and desires, remains in memory for a long time, along with the words that he utters.

Of course, in addition to breathing, its timbre, intonation, and rhythm of speech are no less important for the sexual attractiveness of the voice. Having mastered the whole complex of voice skills, you will not only increase your “sexual rating”, but also acquire a powerful communication tool - for love, for business, for understanding yourself as a full-fledged person.

How to please the man of your dreams?

By ear. Develop your ear, and you will be able to hear his speech, like a song, "learn" it and sing it to him, but with your own voice!
Hear how he speaks: at what pace, how often he pauses, what intonations he uses, how smooth his speech is, how and where he puts accents ....
If you can hear this, adjust the natural sound of your voice to this tempo, rhythm, intonation ....
And a beautiful stranger will in some unknown way feel that he knows you, as if, a long time ago, almost like himself, he will feel affection and trust and will certainly want to continue communication!