At heart, I am a very kind and sensitive person. But as I get out of the shower - such a bastard!
Nature has made many mistakes, and now they all go to rest on it.
Tolerance is when the ass is red with anger, and the head smiles and nods.
For a long time I was looking for my soul mate, but I did not find it. Probably because he was born whole.
What the hell is joking while God sleeps!
Decent thoughts do not wander around empty attics.
A man without dreams is like a bird without wings. Can shit, can't fly...
Sometimes you have to pretend to be a fool so as not to look like an idiot.
I would like to have not only a conscience ...
A woman never knows what she wants. But she knows exactly what she wants!
The phrases "Everything in life must be tried" and "Once not p..daras" were invented by the same person.
Only those who look at you with tenderness have beautiful eyes...
If you have found the woman of your dreams, you can say goodbye to the rest of your dreams.
The best part about babies is the process of making them.
At an interesting job and interesting dreams.
Reasoning about the fate of the Fatherland on the leather seats of limousines sounds more heartfelt and sincere than in the queues at the labor exchange.
Do not offend our billionaires and politicians! They are like children, living at our expense.
If you don't like money, then you don't have it.
If a woman is in a bad mood, we try to improve it; if it's good, use it.
Hell is not terrible for hot pans, but for those who fry on them.
Forty years is the time when it's time to stop starting life and start ending it.
Old age begins when you come to the conclusion that most of what you would ever want will never happen, and most of what will happen, you would never want.
In our difficult time, the feeling of the elbow has completely disappeared. All that was left was the feeling of a knee ... in the ass.
The trouble is not that our work loves fools, but that they love to lead it with us.
To become a Judas, one betrayal is enough.
Relatives are a group of people who are going to periodically count and have a tasty meal about a change in their number.
Women are such touching creatures, so I would touch and touch ...
In each of us lives a child who was forgotten to be flogged.
Where it is not allowed to laugh, there, as a rule, it is forbidden to cry.
What do women desire? Women want everything to be the way they want!
A real Jew must... No, no, not like that! A real Jew should!
All is not lost yet! More to lose and lose!
Having a conscience is not profitable at all - it is much more profitable to sell it at a higher price.
A person is never as unhappy as he thinks, or as happy as he wants.
A jealous husband is looking for a lover in the closet, a smart one is looking for things that he did not buy for his wife.
If a woman begins a phrase with the words "I don't want to offend you," get ready to hear the most offensive thing in your life.
Women are of two types: the first sell their availability, and the second their inaccessibility.
Life is like a dog sled. If you are not the leader, the picture never changes.
Who is married is not afraid of vuvuzela!
If a woman does not want to have sex, then her head hurts. If a man does not want to have sex, then he is a soulless bastard.
As Berezovsky says, a refugee is better than a sapling.
There are many people in the world who are dissatisfied with life, but no one has yet complained about death.
It is unfair when one inherits ancestral property, and another inherits a birth injury.
Fortune smiles at the one whom Themis does not notice.
If they try to drag you into a win-win lottery, this means that you will not leave without losing.
People are best at what they don't have.
In Russia, an optimist is not the one who is the first to shout "Hurray!", but the one who is the last to shout "Hurray!"
I don't have an alcohol addiction, I have an alcohol addiction.
At heart, I am a very kind and sensitive person. But as I get out of the shower - such a bastard!
Nature has made many mistakes, and now they all go to rest on it.
Tolerance is when the ass is red with anger, and the head smiles and nods.
For a long time I was looking for my soul mate, but I did not find it. Probably because he was born whole.
What the hell is joking while God sleeps!
Decent thoughts do not wander around empty attics.
A man without dreams is like a bird without wings. Can shit, can't fly...
Sometimes you have to pretend to be a fool so as not to look like an idiot.
I would like to have not only a conscience ...
A woman never knows what she wants. But she knows exactly what she wants!
The phrases "Everything in life must be tried" and "Once not p..daras" were invented by the same person.
Only those who look at you with tenderness have beautiful eyes...
If you have found the woman of your dreams, you can say goodbye to the rest of your dreams.
The best part about babies is the process of making them.
At an interesting job and interesting dreams.
Reasoning about the fate of the Fatherland on the leather seats of limousines sounds more heartfelt and sincere than in the queues at the labor exchange.
Do not offend our billionaires and politicians! They are like children, living at our expense.
If you don't like money, then you don't have it.
If a woman is in a bad mood, we try to improve it; if it's good, use it.
Hell is not terrible for hot pans, but for those who fry on them.
Forty years is the time when it's time to stop starting life and start ending it.
Old age begins when you come to the conclusion that most of what you would ever want will never happen, and most of what will happen, you would never want.
In our difficult time, the feeling of the elbow has completely disappeared. All that was left was the feeling of a knee ... in the ass.
The trouble is not that our work loves fools, but that they love to lead it with us.
To become a Judas, one betrayal is enough.
Relatives are a group of people who are going to periodically count and have a tasty meal about a change in their number.
Women are such touching creatures, so I would touch and touch ...
In each of us lives a child who was forgotten to be flogged.
Where it is not allowed to laugh, there, as a rule, it is forbidden to cry.
What do women desire? Women want everything to be the way they want!
A real Jew must... No, no, not like that! A real Jew should!
All is not lost yet! More to lose and lose!
Having a conscience is not profitable at all - it is much more profitable to sell it at a higher price.
A person is never as unhappy as he thinks, or as happy as he wants.
A jealous husband is looking for a lover in the closet, a smart one is looking for things that he did not buy for his wife.
If a woman begins a phrase with the words "I don't want to offend you," get ready to hear the most offensive thing in your life.
Women are of two types: the first sell their availability, and the second their inaccessibility.
Life is like a dog sled. If you are not the leader, the picture never changes.
Who is married is not afraid of vuvuzela!
If a woman does not want to have sex, then her head hurts. If a man does not want to have sex, then he is a soulless bastard.
As Berezovsky says, a refugee is better than a sapling.
There are many people in the world who are dissatisfied with life, but no one has yet complained about death.
It is unfair when one inherits ancestral property, and another inherits a birth injury.
Fortune smiles at the one whom Themis does not notice.
If they try to drag you into a win-win lottery, this means that you will not leave without losing.
People are best at what they don't have.
In Russia, an optimist is not the one who is the first to shout "Hurray!", but the one who is the last to shout "Hurray!"
I don't have an alcohol addiction, I have an alcohol addiction.
"Polite Refusal"- Soviet and Russian rock band.
Story
The Moscow group Polite Refusal was formed in October 1985. In the winter of the same year, the first concert of the group took place in the Palace of Culture.
Determining at least an approximate stylistic framework for the band has always been a headache for music critics. From the very beginning, Polite Refusal was characterized by eclecticism and polystylism, which was by no means characteristic of the vast majority of bands of that time. The favorite lyrical hero of the group is an eccentric aesthete, who, by the will of fate, found himself in the middle of a theater of military operations. At a speech in the program "Musical Ring" in January 1989, the leader of "VO" Roman Suslov defines his creative credo as "a profanation of totalitarian heroism."
The original composition of the group included pianist and songwriter Pyotr Plavinsky, balalaika guitarist and composer Roman Suslov, vocalist Dmitry Shumilov, bass guitarist Mikhail Vereshchagin, drummer Mikhail Mitin, poets and showmen Arkady Semenov and Gor Oganisyan. The debut album of "Polite Refusal" "Opera-86" was released in 1986. Half of the disc was composed of songs to the verses of Pyotr Plavinsky, and the second part was written by the famous poet Arkady Semenov and Roman Suslov. In the same 1986, Pyotr Plavinsky, now known as a connoisseur of Russian fine art of the 20th century, a successful gallery owner and a specialist in nonconformism, left the group.
The premiere of the new "refuseniks" program "Dust on Shoes" took place in December 1986 at the birthday party of the Rock Lab. “Under the beat of the drums, Arkady Semenov trumpets his verses. On the stage - Gor Hovhannisyan (Gor Chakhal - the most famous contemporary artist). The music is harsh and aggressive. Right at the concert, saxophonist Vladimir Davydov joins the group, ”Roman Suslov recalls this event.
The album "Dust on Shoes" was released in 1987, and it was recognized as the best Moscow release of the year. The group participates in the festival "Rock Panorama-87", teleconferences and the program "Musical Ring". In all these events, "VO" appears already in a slightly modified form: Roman Suslov becomes a vocalist, Dmitry Shumilov - a pianist.
In 1989, the Melodiya company released a vinyl disc of Polite Refusal, known among music lovers under the unofficial name "White Record". Especially for this edition, the songs from the band's first albums were re-recorded in a higher quality sound. The famous violinist Sergey Ryzhenko and trumpeter Andrey Soloviev took part in the studio sessions. The circulation of the disc was 125,000 copies. The cover was designed by the artist and conceptual musician Sven Gundlach (who was a member of the associations of conceptual artists "Amanita" and "Central Russian Upland"). The bass and keyboard parts in the album were recorded by Dmitry Shumilov. It was during the work on this record that a new pianist Maxim Trefan (ex-Nicholas Copernicus, guest keyboardist of the Alliance, Corrosion Metalla groups) appeared in the group, who also recorded with the Obermaneken, Matrosskaya silence and Splin groups, who wrote the annotation on the cover.
Since 1989, "Polite Refusal" begins to tour extensively in Europe. At the performances of the Polite Refusal of this time, the program “Ethnic Experiences” (1991) was run in, fixing the transition of Roman Suslov from meaningful texts to onomatopoeic “phoneme music”. By the same time, Suslov, in addition to music, has another serious occupation. Having bought two horses, Roman moves to the village - and eventually becomes the founder of a stud farm, one of the first private in Russia, and subsequently - for a short period - the chairman of a collective farm in the Tula region.
Upon returning from a European tour, the group recorded the album "And-and again! ...", notable for the fact that the musicians manage to record it in just three days in 1992. Stakhanov's pace of work did not at all affect the quality of the product: the album is characterized by seasoned instrumental art and aesthetic integrity. With this program, the group participates in the Berlin Avant-Garde Music Festival, and the album “And-and-again!…” is widely distributed throughout Russia on vinyl, CD and branded audio cassettes. The premiere of the disc takes place in the Palace of Culture on Volkhonka opposite the Pushkin Museum im. Pushkin with a full house.
In 1995, after the appearance of the first new song after almost a three-year break ("Seizure"), which premiered at the Krivoy Caponier club in Kiev, the anthology Polite Refusal 1985-1995 was released, dedicated to the band's tenth anniversary. For the first time, the concert hits of the eighties written to the texts of Gor Oganisyan and Arkady Semenov are recorded on it: “Cantata of weight-lifting masters”, “Oncoming movement”, “Portrait”.
The band will soon start working on new material. A young saxophonist Pavel Tonkovid (a graduate of the Gnessin Academy) appears in the group, and trumpeter Andrey Soloviev (a participant in avant-garde projects, a radio host, a philosopher) becomes a permanent member of the group. And in the fall of 1997, the album "Scythe on a Stone" was released, which is the fruit of the collective creativity of all members of the group. The album turned out to be more avant-garde and diverse than the previous work of the team. In addition, the role of wind instruments has noticeably increased in it. The group actively gives concerts in music clubs in Moscow. Acts as the organizer of the action "Damn Moscow-Berlin" in the garden "Aquarium" on the visor of the theater named after. Moscow City Council, as well as the initiator of the joint action "Heroes of Our Time" in Moscow, together with the groups "Nezhdali" and "Vopli Vidoplyasova". Chamber concerts of "Polite Refusal" are held in the Moscow museums of Vladimir Mayakovsky and Alexander Skryabin, at which new plays are presented to the public, which formed the basis of the group's next album - "Geran".
Work on "Geranium" is not easy. Roman Suslov is more and more distracted by his horse-breeding business in the countryside. The group continues to give concerts, the album is almost completely finished, but the concerts are less and less frequent. In 1999, due to a hand injury received in a serious car accident, Maxim Trefan leaves the group.
The recording of "Gerani" is carried out in two sessions - in 2000 and in 2001. To record the piano parts during the second session, on the advice of Anton Batagov (pianist, minimalist composer), the famous Moscow composer Pavel Karmanov is invited, who soon becomes an active member of the group. The record of the first session goes from hand to hand in Moscow and becomes a collector's rarity. In the fall of 2000, "Polite Refusal" takes part in the World Music Festival, where it gives two concerts, and performs at the Elbow Room in New York.
Finally, in October 2002 Geranium is released on CD. The genre of this work can be roughly defined as avant-progressive rock with elements of free jazz improvisation. Five texts for this album were written by the remarkable poet and philologist Grigory Dashevsky, who became famous thanks to his translations of Truman Capote, Robert Penn Warren, Raymond Carver, Joseph Brodsky, Vladimir Nabokov, Aldous Huxley, Francis Yeats, Rene Fat macaw. The group reaches the peak of its form, however, at the end of the concert at the Dom Cultural Center on December 12, 2002, Roman Suslov unexpectedly announces the cessation of musical activities and the closure of the Polite Refusal project. The group arranges farewell concerts in Moscow, St. Petersburg, Vladimir and Kyiv and stops its activities until 2006.
Each appearance of the group on stage becomes an event in the cultural life. As a result of one of these concerts - performances at the Moscow Art Theater named after. Gorky March 24, 2006 in honor of the 25th anniversary of the group - was released a quadruple (2CD + 2 DVD) live-album "Concerto". The concert at the Moscow Art Theater was also notable for the fact that, in preparation for it, the violinist Sergey Ryzhenko joined the group, as well as the fact that former members of the group took part in it: Pyotr Plavinsky, who once came up with the name Polite Refusal, and Maxim Trefan, a pianist "VO" from 1989 to 2000
The group currently includes: drummer Mikhail Mitin, trumpeter Andrey Soloviev, pianist Pavel Karmanov and bassist Dmitry Shumilov, violinist Sergey Ryzhenko, who has permanent entreprises in Moscow clubs, and, finally, Roman Suslov, guitarist, author of music and the main ideologist of the "circle musical explorations.
At various times, "Rejection" played on the same stage with such performers as UB40, Mister Gang, Lindsey Cooper, Orthotonics, Fred Frith (Keep the Dog), Tim Hodgkinson, Peter Hammill, Ustad Fateh Ali Khan and Misty in Roots.
On May 29, 2009 Polite Refusal took part in a very unusual concert. Together with the First Symphony Ensemble without a conductor Persimfans, recently recreated by pianist Peter Aidu on the basis of the music laboratory of the School of Dramatic Art, the group presented the joint project "Nichtzusammen" at the Central House of Artists. A gift to the audience was the poetic introduction of the poet and one of the founders of the group Arkady Semenov, as well as the performance by Roman Suslov together with pianist Peter Aidu of the vocal cycle “Four newspaper announcements”, created in the 20s of the last century by the constructivist composer Alexander Mosolov. In addition, Persimfans took part in the performance of two songs of "Refusal" - "March" and "Tikirika". The performance program of Persimfans himself at this concert consisted of two works by Igor Stravinsky - Ragtime for 11 instruments and the chamber concert "Dumbarton oaks". It is also worth noting the program of Peter Aidu - "Bells and Bells", in which "VO" regularly takes part.
In April 2010, Polite Refusal completed work on their first numbered album in 7 years, which received the unexpected name Geese-Swans. The disc includes such songs already tested at concerts as “Buryatskaya Sea”, “Led Zepellin”, “Murka”, as well as a completely new instrumental piece “Etude”, composed while working in the studio. The presentation of the album, published by the label Zenith (Soyuz), took place on April 9, 2010 in the Moscow club "Caviar", at which the public was also presented with another composition that was not included in the album "Geese-Swans" - "Lukhta".
Later - in May and June 2010 - the chamber composition of the group was presented to the public, consisting of the Suslov-Karmanov-Shumilov trio and one of the pair of group soloists - Andrey Solovyov and Sergey Ryzhenko. At the concerts of the chamber ensemble, the detailed structure of each composition and each instrumental part in it comes to the fore (and not only from the new program, but also from previous works). However, at the same time, the group does not lose either in dynamics, or in the complexity and clarity of musical construction. Now the "electric" concerts of the full sextet "Polite Refusal" alternate with room concerts and acoustic performances of the chamber composition on small venues.
In 2011 Polite Refusal continued to perform in clubs and concert venues in Moscow, St. Petersburg and Perm. On March 12, the next two plays - "Overture" and "History" - from the "military cycle", work on which Roman Suslov began in the summer of 2008, were shown in Moscow. And in December, at the festival dedicated to the 10th anniversary of the GEOMETRY label, the plays “What if!” and "Rommel and Ice Cream" (the latter play was later renamed "Guderyan and Ice Cream"). By this time, the composition of the "Cuplets" included "We will win!", "Overture", "What if!", "Guderyan and ice cream", "Tikireka" (also included in the album "Geese-Swans") and "History" . Work on this cycle is ongoing. On May 19, this program will be presented at the Polite Refusal concert dedicated to the 200th anniversary of the Moscow Fire in 1812. Here is what Moscow journalist Grigory Durnovo writes about this (author of editorials for the reissue of the albums of Polite Refusal) - “.. if you take a closer look at the work of Refusal, you can see the echoes of the war in different programs - this is Waltz an epigraph from the song “Clouds have risen over the city” (album “And-and once! ..” 1992), and, perhaps, even the ancient “We are all doomed to defeat” (“Opera” 1986). And now the war comes to the fore - without propaganda and naturalism, tormenting the soul, terrible and incomprehensible. At the same time - on May 19 - the official presentation of the next release from the group's back catalog - "Ethnic Experiences" (1990-1994), released by the label "GEOMETRIA" on March 30, will take place. In the near future, the album "Geranium" from the same series will be released.
One of the most common difficulties is the need to refuse people. And although there are often situations at work in which, due to your professional duties, you simply cannot say “no”, other circumstances will develop day by day that give you a certain freedom of choice. How to use your right to say “no” and correctly formulate a refusal?
Think like this: By not saying “no” at the right time, you are putting the other person’s needs ahead of your own. Do you really want it? There are many situations at work where your needs are just as important, and in some circumstances even more important than the needs of your colleagues. Remember how often colleagues refused you. And you calmly and without irritation accepted this answer. So why worry about someone getting upset if you do the same?
The real problem is that the constant "yes" is easy to become a habit, and it is really difficult to change the entrenched pattern of behavior. Think of your colleagues. Can you guess what to expect from each of them? Probably yes. Similarly, your co-workers, having become used to your dependability, are likely to come to you with so many requests that you simply cannot fulfill them. Thus, the habit of constantly agreeing to work requests will lead you to overwhelm, because you take on more than you can do or really should do. This leads to stress, frustration, resentment, conflict and mistakes, and over time the situation only gets worse.
So, the ability to say no when you feel like it is an important skill to master. You will certainly have situations where you want to help someone, even if it is inconvenient for you. Remember: means respecting your needs and rights as much as the rights of others, as well as agreeing to compromise when necessary.
Take it step by step and don't try to do it all at once. Try one new skill and hone it until you get it right. Be prepared for the fact that not everything will work out right away. You want to learn new skills, and there are always ups and downs in learning something new.
Many do not like to say "no", believing that there is only one way to do it - a direct refusal. Such a “no” may seem rude and aggressive. And this is usually not the impression you want to make at work. You strive to establish good relationships with colleagues, but you will inevitably have to refuse someone for your own sake - your health and well-being. This means that you must be able to say “no”, but in a way that shows respect for the needs of another person. There are different ways to say no, depending on the situation. Here are three main options.
Direct rejection is the most uncompromising method, and it is rarely suitable for use at work. It is most often resorted to when someone's rights are violated. In such cases, you can loudly and firmly add: "Don't you hear me, I said no."
Asking for more information or a promise "some other time"— an opportunity for discussion, with refusal remaining among the options.
Thoughtful "no"- the most delicate way, because you show that you listened to the interlocutor.
Below I will explain in detail what each of these options are, however the choice will depend on the situation, your attitude towards it and who is making the request, because it can be your mentor, line manager, colleague or team member to whom you really want to help.
Do not try to radically and instantly change your behavior. This is especially true for rejections, as you may shock colleagues who do not expect the leopard to suddenly change color. It is much better to start small, train hard and change gradually.
9 ways to say "no"
| Don't rush to answer | Before answering someone's request, take a short pause. You can ask the other person to repeat it again so that you have a few seconds to think it over. Or say "Let me think..." Check your calendar or work plan to give you time to get ready and say no. |
| Don't apologize too much | Apologize only when you really think it is necessary and appropriate. Many people have already gotten into the habit of repeating the word “sorry” too often. Begin sentences with "Unfortunately..." or "I'm afraid...", but only when necessary. |
| Be concise | Avoid long, wordy explanations of why you can't do something. A simple phrase “Today will not work” will be enough. The following phrases may be useful - of course, when they are pronounced with friendly participation, warmth and sincere regret: "I'm sorry, but I can't do this." "Unfortunately, I just don't have time for that." "Sorry, it won't work today." (Sometimes "sorry" is fine.) |
| "Mirror" the behavior of the interlocutor | In this case, you mirror what and how you were asked, but still complete the phrase with a refusal. Speak in a friendly manner and with regret, look the interlocutor in the eye. You:"I don't have time in the afternoon to help you with your reports." Colleague:"But I wanted to start doing it today." You:“I understand that you wanted to start this, but I won’t be able to do it this afternoon.” Colleague:"But I need to finish everything this week." You:“I understand that you need to finish this week, but I won’t be able to help you this afternoon.” |
| Broken Record Technique | It is very important to insist on your negative decision, as usually the interlocutor is trying to get you to change it. Children are especially good at it! A useful technique in this case for you may be the broken record technique: just gently repeat your refusal, no matter how the interlocutor tries to put pressure on you |
| Explain the reason for rejection | In this case, you briefly explain the real reason for your "no". Do this only if you want to or if it's necessary. You do not have to explain your actions to everyone who asks you for something. "I can't help you with your report today because I have a business meeting this afternoon." “I don’t have time for this because I will be busy with visitors” |
| Offer to fulfill the request another time | In this case, you say "no" now, but you may agree to comply with the request later. In English, this technique is called a rain check - that is, a ticket stub that gives a fan the right to come to a baseball game rescheduled due to rain. "I can't help you today because I'm in meetings all day, but maybe I'll have free time tomorrow." |
| Ask for more information | This is not a final refusal, in this case, discussion, compromise or refusal is possible in the future. How detailed should the report be? "Can you start without me?" |
| Ask for time to make a decision | Never be afraid to ask for time to think things through. "I need to check my work schedule, after that I will answer you." “I can't answer right now. I'll call you later" |
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good afternoon everyone. I have one question, where to complain about the invasion of lice at school ???? the teachers are silent and refuse, the nurse "under the rastrel" admits that almost the entire school has it, from grades 1 to 11 (the beginning is just all without exception), but refuses to tell the parents out loud. I never exaggerate the extent of our local catastrophe. I have two children, one in the 1st, the other in the 3rd grade. About the third I can say that out of 31 people, 4 have no lice.
Finding a nanny for your baby is a responsible and difficult task. Indeed, in this case, you not only invite an outsider to your house, but also trust him with the most valuable thing you have - your child. Therefore, the choice of a reliable nanny must be approached very carefully, thoughtfully, weighing all the pros and cons. After all, if something happens - your relationship with the nanny does not work out or the wrong person gets out, the child will suffer first of all. Of course, it's easier and probably wiser to contact...
At the end of the last century, a large number of agencies for the selection of domestic staff appeared on the domestic service market - nannies, governesses, housekeepers. This was largely due to the sharply increased demand for such services. Many modern women quite logically believe that being a mother and housewife is also a job, and a very difficult and responsible one at that. Therefore, they often prefer to transfer the management of their household, including the upbringing of children, into capable hands ...
How to politely remind about a letter? Help. About his own, about a girl's. Discussion of questions about the life of a woman in the family, at work, relationships with men. I would say that this is very disrespectful.
So what is false breastfeeding? This is when a child wants to eat, but spits on her boobs, moreover, she sobs at the sight of her. The child is worried about something, but what it cannot say, and therefore, in the only way available to it, it shows that it sucks.
Can you tell me if you know. The previous answers did not seem convincing to me. Everything is correct - in the first phrase all consonants are deaf, in the second - all soft, in the third - always hard in the word "zhushuts", the word "hard" reminds of this.
I would just honestly say that the artist and the pool are more important to you than French. :) You explain calmly, politely, but STRONGLY that the elective is named so because it is NOT required to attend.
The husband is very rarely the initiator of sex, he evades my proposals to diversify our lives and responds with polite refusals. Only before the child a guilt complex appeared in advance. I'm tired. Say something. Is it crazy to get divorced because of sex???
One friend of mine once told me a phrase that like "sometimes it's easier to sleep than to explain WHY NOT" ... I'm wondering ... does it really happen ?? anyone think about this?
The more polite the refusal, the louder the crunch of the bummer.At heart, I am a very kind and sensitive person. But as I get out of the shower - such a bastard!
Nature has made many mistakes, and now they all go to rest on it.
Tolerance is when the ass is red with anger, and the head smiles and nods.
For a long time I was looking for my soul mate, but I did not find it. Probably because he was born whole.
What the hell is joking while God sleeps!
Decent thoughts do not wander around empty attics.
A man without dreams is like a bird without wings. Can shit, can't fly...
Sometimes you have to pretend to be a fool so as not to look like an idiot.
I would like to have not only a conscience ...
A woman never knows what she wants. But she knows exactly what she wants!
The phrases "Everything in life must be tried" and "Once not p..daras" were invented by the same person.
Only those who look at you with tenderness have beautiful eyes...
If you have found the woman of your dreams, you can say goodbye to the rest of your dreams.
The best part about babies is the process of making them.
At an interesting job and interesting dreams.
Reasoning about the fate of the Fatherland on the leather seats of limousines sounds more heartfelt and sincere than in the queues at the labor exchange.
Do not offend our billionaires and politicians! They are like children, living at our expense.
If you don't like money, then you don't have it.
If a woman is in a bad mood, we try to improve it; if it's good, use it.
Hell is not terrible for hot pans, but for those who fry on them.
Forty years is the time when it's time to stop starting life and start ending it.
Old age begins when you come to the conclusion that most of what you would ever want will never happen, and most of what will happen, you would never want.
In our difficult time, the feeling of the elbow has completely disappeared. All that was left was the feeling of a knee ... in the ass.
The trouble is not that our work loves fools, but that they love to lead it with us.
To become a Judas, one betrayal is enough.
Relatives are a group of people who are going to periodically count and have a tasty meal about a change in their number.
Women are such touching creatures, so I would touch and touch ...
In each of us lives a child who was forgotten to be flogged.
Where it is not allowed to laugh, there, as a rule, it is forbidden to cry.
What do women desire? Women want everything to be the way they want!
A real Jew must... No, no, not like that! A real Jew should!
All is not lost yet! More to lose and lose!
Having a conscience is not profitable at all - it is much more profitable to sell it at a higher price.
A person is never as unhappy as he thinks, or as happy as he wants.
A jealous husband is looking for a lover in the closet, a smart one is looking for things that he did not buy for his wife.
If a woman begins a phrase with the words "I don't want to offend you," get ready to hear the most offensive thing in your life.
Women are of two types: the first sell their availability, and the second their inaccessibility.
Life is like a dog sled. If you are not the leader, the picture never changes.
Who is married is not afraid of vuvuzela!
If a woman does not want to have sex, then her head hurts. If a man does not want to have sex, then he is a soulless bastard.
As Berezovsky says, a refugee is better than a sapling.
There are many people in the world who are dissatisfied with life, but no one has yet complained about death.
It is unfair when one inherits ancestral property, and another inherits a birth injury.
Fortune smiles at the one whom Themis does not notice.
If they try to drag you into a win-win lottery, this means that you will not leave without losing.
People are best at what they don't have.
In Russia, an optimist is not the one who is the first to shout "Hurray!", but the one who is the last to shout "Hurray!"
I don't have an alcohol addiction, I have an alcohol addiction.
