Remember how, as children, we clung to the TV screen when our favorite film, The Three Musketeers, was on there. As we admired the fearless trio of musketeers, we sang along with the young d. Artagnan "It's time, time, we will rejoice in our lifetime." And how unpleasant we were the cunning Cardinal Richelieu, Rochefort and the most negative hero of the novel - Milady. She - the Countess de La Fère, Lady Winter - constantly pursued our heroes, created intrigues and brought death with her. But at the same time, some force attracted to this woman branded with a lily flower, her strength and cunning also deserved admiration ....
Terekhova - Milady
Albatross
I don't believe in a child.
Here on all psychological sites they write: the main thing is faith in the child, support from parents.
Excellent, gentlemen psychologists.
And if there is no faith in the child? Well, you don't believe in him.
Always stupid children, children with SR, unteachable - they are somewhere out there, far away, in other families.
And you're talking about faith like that.
What if you have? If you yourself have an unteachable degrading child?
Whereas? Chanting "We believe in ourselves!" like in the finale of the movie "Requiem for a Dream"?
Spit and not do at all?
So the public is pushing.
- Ah, he will go to a school for fools (and he belongs there anyway,
because he is a fool)!
- Oh, you yourself are ruining your child.
- But with Tanya-Kolya-Petya they are engaged, and they have progress, but you do not study, and Vasya loses his skills.
And how to deal with it? How to force yourself? How to force it, Egyptian power?
So he sat down to study - and the province went for a walk:
You give him a finger in a book, and he plays cars with his other hand.
You remove the cars - it just spins.
You try to read a book - at every word he interrupts and carries some kind of heresy.
And yelling, yelling, yelling, spitting (sorry) on your clothes, poking a finger in your eyes, throwing things...
Sometimes I want to talk about my problem.
But who will you talk to?
With husband? He himself is horrified.
With parents? They won't listen, they'll say, "It's my own fault," or, "I don't have the nerve for all these things."
It's good when you can just say "I don't have enough nerves" and go home (hang up the phone, log out of Skype...).
And you can't afford that luxury. You have to spend the rest of your life with this child.
Every day, day after day. Always. You're on life, darling.
And you're always to blame, no matter what you do.
Do you give pills? - Badly. Don't you? - even worse.
Doing - breaking down - yelling? It’s bad, you can’t yell, it loosens the already pampered system of the child,
that jumps on your head while you lie half dead.
Are you not busy? It’s bad - the child doesn’t shine even now, but it will grow even more trenchant.
I went for a walk with him on the street, does he beat passers-by there? Too bad, take him home.
Are you at home with him? It's bad, the child needs to move.
In short, from all sides bad, whatever one may say. For others, it is bad, but for oneself it is the embodiment of evil on earth.
You can go to the forum - there you will grab so much abuse that it lasts an average of six months.
Phew, I spoke up.
Let's chat, shall we?
Tell us about your difficulties with children and how you overcame them. Or not overcome.
If you really want to run with slippers - well, run, now what to do with you ...
Maria
Hello girls. Today I lost my wedding ring while I was eating meat, I decided to take it off and put it on a hundred, and forgot to put it on. After that, the table was wiped many times and still there is no ring of mine! Already searched everything, every corner. Now what to do with the husband's ring? Should I keep it the same or put it off for now? We are not painted, just started wearing since 2017. We were going to sign next summer.
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What can you say about classes in paid speed reading schools?
I looked, they have a network in almost all cities. What is really useful? Some reviews write that it is harmful for children to learn speed reading, grammar allegedly then suffers ..
Girls from Ufa, tell me good developmental classes, sections, dances .. Right now there is an entry for September everywhere ...
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Girls, please support.
I live with my husband and 4 year old child. Relatively recently I went to work, I'm just getting used to it and life is getting better. But it got worse with her husband. He stopped funding me completely. He doesn't even give me food or travel. He looks for something in my things, looks at the contents of my bag, pockets, reads the messenger on the phone, reads the browser history. She put on the wrong thing, put the plate in the wrong place, etc. She reproaches me with new clothes. It became very difficult. No hello, no reply. He goes to his parents, communicates with relatives, and I'm all at work or alone with the child on weekends.
The topic of divorce has been around for a long time. But I was not ready to move out to rented accommodation with a child. Once he changed the locks in my apartment in my absence. The child was 6 months old. I stood for 5 hours with a child in my arms at the entrance (((then my parents did not support me, there was simply nowhere to go, there was no one to leave the child ... Then, apparently, he took pity, let him in. Live. There were a lot of things. But I just don’t dare to leave. It seems that I will not arrange my life, I will not earn money for housing.
Support with a positive experience. I am depressed and desperate.
161 Maria Sirotinskaya and Vlad SitdikovToday, Channel One aired the program “Male/Female”, dedicated to the socialization and achievements of people with Down syndrome.
The host of the program, Evelina Bledans, urged her Instagram followers to definitely watch the program “About our Olympic champions, about the village of Svetlana near St. Petersburg, where people with special needs live, and which, of course, needs help (the bill will be posted on the screen), about the upcoming wedding of the daughter of Irina Khakamada, Masha Sirotinskaya and a guy with Down syndrome Vlad Sitdikov. (The spelling and punctuation of the author are preserved. - Approx. ed.).
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Participants of the program "Male / Female"
20-year-old Maria Sirotinskaya has been dating Vlad Sitdikov for several years. In July, young people vacationed together in Greece, from where Maria sent romantic photos from the sea coast to her mother.
On the air of the program “Male / Female”, Maria and Vlad told the viewers the story of their relationship and spoke about the depth of their feelings. The lovers treat each other with care and do not hide that they are serious.
The daughter of Irina Khakamada calls Vlad very responsive and kind: “My beloved person,” Maria summed up. Sitdikov, in turn, did not skimp on compliments to his chosen one: “She is very cheerful, I like how she laughs out loud.”
During the program, Alexander Gordon asked when the wedding would be. Maria, embarrassed, gave the floor to her beloved. In turn, Vlad limited himself to a short one: “Not soon yet,” but immediately turned to the TV presenter with a request:
“Alexander, you are a highly respected person, experienced. I want you to become my matchmaker, because you know Masha's mother well.
Alexander Gordon did not remain silent and made it clear that he fully approved of Sirotinskaya's choice: “I promise you that since I know Ira, I will definitely talk to her. I’ll tell you what impression you made on me, how happy Masha is next to you. I think it will grow."
Maria Sirotinskaya told viewers that she dreams of creating a good family, marrying her loved one and having children. But her plans are not limited to this:
“I want to open my own company, I will also earn money, provide for my family and even my husband,” Maria added.
Vlad Sitdikov supported the chosen one: “And, of course, so that we live in perfect harmony, right? And they never fought."
The other day, Channel One aired a new episode of the program "Male and Female", dedicated to an important topic - the socialization and achievements of people with Down syndrome. One of the invited guests was the daughter of Irina Khakamada, 20-year-old actress Maria Sirotinskaya, and her boyfriend, 22-year-old world champion in bench press Vlad Sitdikov. The couple told viewers about their lives, hobbies, a recent romantic trip to Greece, and also shared plans for the wedding.
Maria and Vlad met at the theater and, according to Masha, it was love at first sight.
I went to the theater, and there I saw Vlad, he rehearsed in the play ... After that, we had mutual love. I immediately realized that I needed this person and he would be my support. I love him very much and will always be faithful to him.<...>I have plans to create a good family, marry my beloved, always be with him and have children.
When we met her, I found something in her that I could not find before. This is loyalty, love, happiness. And, of course, she is a kind, affectionate, beautiful girl. I found the one with which I would like to connect my life, once and for all, - said Vlad.
Maria Sirotinskaya and Vlad Sitdikov with Alexander Gordon and Evelina Bledans
Also, Vlad, who not only loves to read poetry, but also writes it himself, read a fragment of one of his works dedicated to Mary:
Years passed, I grew up despite the bad weather.
The road led to Moscow, in the theater I stand at the threshold.
And there is euphoria in my head, I suddenly hear: "And I am Maria!"
Hit me like a tsunami...
Vlad and Maria have already introduced each other to their parents, and both parties have approved the choice of their children. At the end of the conversation with the couple, presenter Alexander Gordon asked Mary a direct question: "When is the wedding?" Maria, smiling, modestly answered "Not soon", then Vlad entered the conversation.
Alexander, you are an experienced person. I would like you to become my matchmaker, since you know Masha's mother well.
Alexander promised to talk to Irina Khakamada, because, according to him, Vlad made a very good impression on him.
We offer you to watch the full episode of the program, in which Evelina Bledans and her son also took part:
Suffering from Down syndrome, the daughter of Irina Khakamada Maria Sirotinskaya and her boyfriend Vlad Sitdikov decided to get married.
The daughter of a famous Russian politician - Maria Sirotinskaya - marries her heart friend Vlad Sitdikov.
The bride and groom themselves spoke about this in the program "Male / Female" on Channel One.
Both Masha and Vlad were born with a diagnosis of Down syndrome. But this does not prevent them from living a full life, studying, playing sports and making plans for the future. And the plans of young people, as it turned out, are serious: Maria and Vlad are going to start a family. They have already introduced each other to their loved ones.
“I have plans to make a good family, marry my beloved and always be with him and have my children. I want to open my own company, I will also earn money, provide for my family and even my husband,” said Maria Sirotinskaya.
But the lovers are still not going to rush into the wedding. But the potential son-in-law of Irina Khakamada turned to him right in the studio with a request to become his matchmaker, because the TV presenter is well acquainted with the mother of his beloved.
“I promise you that since I know Ira, I will definitely talk to her. I’ll tell you what impression you made on me, how happy Masha is with you. I think it will grow together,” Gordon replied.
As you know, Masha is the late child of Irina Khakamada. She became a mother for the second time after 40. Irina hid the "special" girl from the public for a long time, but when she grew up, she began to actively take her with her to social events.
Irina has repeatedly said that she considers Masha a completely normal person and communicates with her accordingly. True, raising children with Down syndrome is still a special story, Khakamada notes.
