Today, Channel One aired the program “Male/Female”, dedicated to the socialization and achievements of people with Down syndrome.
The host of the program, Evelina Bledans, urged her Instagram followers to definitely watch the program “About our Olympic champions, about the village of Svetlana near St. Petersburg, where people with special needs live, and which, of course, needs help (the bill will be posted on the screen), about the upcoming wedding of the daughter of Irina Khakamada, Masha Sirotinskaya and a guy with Down syndrome Vlad Sitdikov. (The spelling and punctuation of the author are preserved. - Approx. ed.).
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Participants of the program "Male / Female"
20-year-old Maria Sirotinskaya has been dating Vlad Sitdikov for several years. In July, young people vacationed together in Greece, from where Maria sent romantic photos from the sea coast to her mother.
On the air of the program “Male / Female”, Maria and Vlad told the viewers the story of their relationship and spoke about the depth of their feelings. The lovers treat each other with care and do not hide that they are serious.
The daughter of Irina Khakamada calls Vlad very responsive and kind: “My beloved person,” Maria summed up. Sitdikov, in turn, did not skimp on compliments to his chosen one: “She is very cheerful, I like how she laughs out loud.”
During the program, Alexander Gordon asked when the wedding would be. Maria, embarrassed, gave the floor to her beloved. In turn, Vlad limited himself to a short one: “Not soon yet,” but immediately turned to the TV presenter with a request:
“Alexander, you are a highly respected person, experienced. I want you to become my matchmaker, because you know Masha's mother well.
Alexander Gordon did not remain silent and made it clear that he fully approved of Sirotinskaya's choice: “I promise you that since I know Ira, I will definitely talk to her. I’ll tell you what impression you made on me, how happy Masha is next to you. I think it will grow."
Maria Sirotinskaya told viewers that she dreams of creating a good family, marrying her loved one and having children. But her plans are not limited to this:
“I want to open my own company, I will also earn money, provide for my family and even my husband,” Maria added.
Vlad Sitdikov supported the chosen one: “And, of course, so that we live in perfect harmony, right? And they never fought."
The daughter of a celebrity goes in for dancing, sports, draws a lot and learns English. All this had a positive effect on her. Recall that Maria was born with Down syndrome, because of which Khakamada began a difficult period.
Recently, Maria Sirotinskaya and her chosen one, athlete Vlad Sitdikov, were relaxing on the seashore. Irina Khakamada shared a touching picture of the heiress on the page in the social network. Subscribers of the public figure noted that the girl looks just fine.
The young man gently hugs his beloved by the waist. Later, in an interview, young people added:
“I have plans to make a good family, marry my beloved and always be with him and have my own children. I want to open my own company, I will also earn money, provide for my family and even my husband, ”says Maria, who is studying to be a ceramist and is fond of theater.
“She's very funny, I love the way she laughs out loud,” said the junior bench press champion. “My parents are happy because I found the one I wanted to find.” The girl calls the guy "her favorite person" and notes that her relatives also approved of her choice.
The couple looks very happy. Maria has been dating her boyfriend for almost a year now. They have repeatedly appeared together at social events, and also took part in the charity project of the Love Syndrome Foundation.
Subscribers of Irina Khakamada admire her heiress and praise the woman, as she managed to properly raise her daughter so that she adapts to society: young people with Down syndrome lead an active lifestyle and believe that one should never despair and sit back.
In one of the shots, a young man teaches his chosen one to play giant chess. Some social media users are urging lovers to legalize their relationship as soon as possible and get married. Vlad actively shares pictures from the trip with friends and acquaintances.
Irina Khakamada is happy for the child, because next to Vlad the girl literally blossomed.
Recall that the daughter of Irina Khakamada Maria was born in 1997. For several years, the politician hid the child from prying eyes, but over time, the daughter began to appear with her mother in public. Maria is engaged in dancing, sports, draws a lot and learns English.
The other day, Maria Sirotinskaya and her chosen one Vlad Sitdikov presented a track in which they shared their plans for the future.
Vlad admitted that he could no longer live without his chosen one and was even ready to steal her.
You are a cool girl, Mashunya,
You will always be mine, baby!
But I don't want to wait that long
I want to have you today!
The girl persuades the young man to wait a little and first ask permission from his parents. Vlad agrees. But everything shows that the young man is more than serious.
Remember how, as children, we clung to the TV screen when our favorite film, The Three Musketeers, was on there. As we admired the fearless trio of musketeers, we sang along with the young d. Artagnan "It's time, time, we will rejoice in our lifetime." And how unpleasant we were the cunning Cardinal Richelieu, Rochefort and the most negative hero of the novel - Milady. She - the Countess de La Fère, Lady Winter - constantly pursued our heroes, created intrigues and brought death with her. But at the same time, some force attracted to this woman branded with a lily flower, her strength and cunning also deserved admiration ....
Terekhova - Milady
Albatross
I don't believe in a child.
Here on all psychological sites they write: the main thing is faith in the child, support from parents.
Excellent, gentlemen psychologists.
And if there is no faith in the child? Well, you don't believe in him.
Always stupid children, children with SR, unteachable - they are somewhere out there, far away, in other families.
And you're talking about faith like that.
What if you have? If you yourself have an unteachable degrading child?
Whereas? Chanting "We believe in ourselves!" like in the finale of the movie "Requiem for a Dream"?
Spit and not do at all?
So the public is pushing.
- Ah, he will go to a school for fools (and he belongs there anyway,
because he is a fool)!
- Oh, you yourself are ruining your child.
- But with Tanya-Kolya-Petya they are engaged, and they have progress, but you do not study, and Vasya loses his skills.
And how to deal with it? How to force yourself? How to force it, Egyptian power?
So he sat down to study - and the province went for a walk:
You give him a finger in a book, and he plays cars with his other hand.
You remove the cars - it just spins.
You try to read a book - at every word he interrupts and carries some kind of heresy.
And yelling, yelling, yelling, spitting (sorry) on your clothes, poking a finger in your eyes, throwing things...
Sometimes I want to talk about my problem.
But who will you talk to?
With husband? He himself is horrified.
With parents? They won't listen, they'll say, "It's my own fault," or, "I don't have the nerve for all these things."
It's good when you can just say "I don't have enough nerves" and go home (hang up the phone, log out of Skype...).
And you can't afford that luxury. You have to spend the rest of your life with this child.
Every day, day after day. Always. You're on life, darling.
And you're always to blame, no matter what you do.
Do you give pills? - Badly. Don't you? - even worse.
Doing - breaking down - yelling? It’s bad, you can’t yell, it loosens the already pampered system of the child,
that jumps on your head while you lie half dead.
Are you not busy? It’s bad - the child doesn’t shine even now, but it will grow even more trenchant.
I went for a walk with him on the street, does he beat passers-by there? Too bad, take him home.
Are you at home with him? It's bad, the child needs to move.
In short, from all sides bad, whatever one may say. For others, it is bad, but for oneself it is the embodiment of evil on earth.
You can go to the forum - there you will grab so much abuse that it lasts an average of six months.
Phew, I spoke up.
Let's chat, shall we?
Tell us about your difficulties with children and how you overcame them. Or not overcome.
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Hello girls. Today I lost my wedding ring while I was eating meat, I decided to take it off and put it on a hundred, and forgot to put it on. After that, the table was wiped many times and still there is no ring of mine! Already searched everything, every corner. Now what to do with the husband's ring? Should I keep it the same or put it off for now? We are not painted, just started wearing since 2017. We were going to sign next summer.
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I live with my husband and 4 year old child. Relatively recently I went to work, I'm just getting used to it and life is getting better. But it got worse with her husband. He stopped funding me completely. He doesn't even give me food or travel. He looks for something in my things, looks at the contents of my bag, pockets, reads the messenger on the phone, reads the browser history. She put on the wrong thing, put the plate in the wrong place, etc. She reproaches me with new clothes. It became very difficult. No hello, no reply. He goes to his parents, communicates with relatives, and I'm all at work or alone with the child on weekends.
The topic of divorce has been around for a long time. But I was not ready to move out to rented accommodation with a child. Once he changed the locks in my apartment in my absence. The child was 6 months old. I stood for 5 hours with a child in my arms at the entrance (((then my parents did not support me, there was simply nowhere to go, there was no one to leave the child ... Then, apparently, he took pity, let him in. Live. There were a lot of things. But I just don’t dare to leave. It seems that I will not arrange my life, I will not earn money for housing.
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161Our article will tell about an unusual girl, whose story today inspires many people and gives hope for the best. Her mother is a Russian politician and deputy chairman of the State Duma of the Russian Federation, Irina Khakamada. Maria Sirotinskaya was born with Down syndrome, but her family loves her for who she is. The support of her relatives helped her gain confidence in herself, find many favorite hobbies, and gave her hope for happiness in the future.
The fruit of great love
Talking about her unusual child, Irina skillfully controls emotions. She does not betray any excitement, she speaks of her daughter with love and tenderness.
The girl's father is Khakamada's fourth husband, Vladimir Sirotinsky, who is in the business of financial consulting. According to the politician, Maria was a hard-won and very desirable child.
Irina Mutsuovna already had a son, Daniel, had an unsuccessful experience of family life when she met her future husband. Next to him, she regained female happiness, felt loved and desired. Irina dreamed of giving her beloved man a child, and Vladimir himself believed that a common child should be born in their small family.
The couple were afraid of the risks, because Irina was over forty when she found out about the long-awaited pregnancy. The fears were confirmed. Immediately after birth (in 1997), the girl was diagnosed with Down syndrome.
Misfortune never comes alone
As Irina Khakamada told the press, Maria grew up as a healthy child. But in 2003, she was diagnosed with a terrible disease - leukemia. Fortunately, the disease was diagnosed at an early stage, and therefore the chances of success were great.
Masha was treated in Russia. Talking about this difficult period, Irina Mutsuovna speaks with great gratitude about the doctors who did everything possible for her baby. In difficult times, family and friends helped a lot.
The disease has receded. Although Masha has to undergo regular examinations, nothing threatens her health.
special girl
Maria Sirotinskaya, daughter of Khakamada, like other people with the same diagnosis, loves creativity and does not know how to be offended. According to her mother, Masha is very kind and never sad for a long time. She does not really like the exact sciences, but she loves everything related to dance, theater and art.
The girl was not only able to get a secondary education. She went to college to be a ceramist.
Talking about her daughter, Irina says that she taught everyone around her a lot. Maria treats people sincerely and loves them only because she has them. Her disinterestedness and frankness are disarming, in her big heart there is a kind ray for everyone.
The right to be happy
At the age of 18, Masha met Vlad Sitdikov, with whom they not only quickly found a common language, but also fell in love with each other. Today it is known that the daughter of Irina Khakamada Maria received a marriage proposal from her lover, and the couple is planning a wedding.
The announcement of the decision to marry was made live on the program “Let them talk”, where the couple was invited to film. Vlad and Masha talked about the lives of people with Down syndrome, shared their dreams, boasted about their achievements. When they announced their intention, it came as a surprise to many.
Everyone has the right to happiness. Khakamada's daughter Maria decided to marry unexpectedly for her family, but her relatives supported her desire.
Irina says that people with Down syndrome do not like to draw a line between the real world and the world of dreams, so sometimes it can be difficult to understand when they are serious and when they are joking. But, apparently, Masha and Vlad are firm in their decision.
The future son-in-law of the famous mother-in-law
Who is he, the chosen one of Mary? Vlad is a couple of years older than his beloved, he has the same diagnosis as hers. He is the same sociable, active and kind person. The guy loves sports, and he has already managed to achieve considerable success: Vlad Sitdikov is the world champion in bench press in his weight category. In addition, the young man is fond of sports journalism.
About myself and about the "children of the Sun"
Since Irina Khakamada began posting photos of Maria on the web, public interest in the girl has only been growing. Masha is not afraid of attention, she is calm in front of the cameras, behaves confidently and sincerely when she gives an interview.
The support of relatives and her lover helps the girl to believe in herself. Like most "sunny children", Maria had to deal with misunderstanding, but today she has learned to laugh at old stereotypes.
At the beginning of 2017, Maria and Vlad took part in the Love Syndrome Foundation project. They starred in a video about special people in which they and their friends were invited to comment on the most common misconceptions about people with Down syndrome. Masha talked about the fact that they know how to study and be creative, Vlad shared the story of his sporting successes.
But it is very difficult for such people to do things that are familiar to many! But not at all because of health problems, but because of the cautious and unfair attitude of society.
Maria and Vlad believe that by participating in such projects, they help the same people find themselves, gain confidence, believe in a dream. The guys who performed in the video convince us that sports, science, travel, art, love are for everyone, and not for the elite.
Masha shares photos with subscribers of social networks. When you look at her smiling face in sunny shots, it becomes clear that her life is actually full of joys and adventures. So, everyone can live the way they dream.
With hope for the best
Irina Khakamada's daughter Maria is not the only person with Down syndrome who leads a normal and interesting life.
Today, educational work is carried out by many teachers, psychologists, speech pathologists and doctors. Caring people tend to tell more about those who were born with an unusual set of chromosomes. Parents of "sunny children" do not stand aside either. For example, she found out about her son's diagnosis even before his birth. The artist talks about the life of little Semyon, shares his photographs, strives to convey to people that Down syndrome is not a disease, but a feature with which you can lead a full life.
According to psychologists, teachers and social educators, such children are teachable, but require a different approach. They are kind and incapable of knowingly causing harm. It is more difficult for them to acquire social skills, but patience and love can work wonders.
Maria Sirotinskaya and Vlad SitdikovToday, Channel One aired the program “Male/Female”, dedicated to the socialization and achievements of people with Down syndrome.
The host of the program, Evelina Bledans, urged her Instagram followers to definitely watch the program “About our Olympic champions, about the village of Svetlana near St. Petersburg, where people with special needs live, and which, of course, needs help (the bill will be posted on the screen), about the upcoming wedding of the daughter of Irina Khakamada, Masha Sirotinskaya and a guy with Down syndrome Vlad Sitdikov. (The spelling and punctuation of the author are preserved. - Approx. ed.).
A post shared by Evelina Bledans(@bledans) on Aug 17, 2017 at 9:13pm PDT
Participants of the program "Male / Female"
20-year-old Maria Sirotinskaya has been dating Vlad Sitdikov for several years. In July, young people vacationed together in Greece, from where Maria sent romantic photos from the sea coast to her mother.
On the air of the program “Male / Female”, Maria and Vlad told the viewers the story of their relationship and spoke about the depth of their feelings. The lovers treat each other with care and do not hide that they are serious.
The daughter of Irina Khakamada calls Vlad very responsive and kind: “My beloved person,” Maria summed up. Sitdikov, in turn, did not skimp on compliments to his chosen one: “She is very cheerful, I like how she laughs out loud.”
During the program, Alexander Gordon asked when the wedding would be. Maria, embarrassed, gave the floor to her beloved. In turn, Vlad limited himself to a short one: “Not soon yet,” but immediately turned to the TV presenter with a request:
“Alexander, you are a highly respected person, experienced. I want you to become my matchmaker, because you know Masha's mother well.
Alexander Gordon did not remain silent and made it clear that he fully approved of Sirotinskaya's choice: “I promise you that since I know Ira, I will definitely talk to her. I’ll tell you what impression you made on me, how happy Masha is next to you. I think it will grow."
Maria Sirotinskaya told viewers that she dreams of creating a good family, marrying her loved one and having children. But her plans are not limited to this:
“I want to open my own company, I will also earn money, provide for my family and even my husband,” Maria added.
Vlad Sitdikov supported the chosen one: “And, of course, so that we live in perfect harmony, right? And they never fought."
