The singer says that he was a womanizer on an all-Union scale, but love for Irina turned Don Juan into an exemplary family man. But the couple did not immediately realize their feelings.
Soso Pavliashvili with his wife and children.
Vladimir Chistyakov
The singer has never been deprived of female attention. And not a single representative of the fair sex, after breaking up with him, was offended or angry. Irina Ponarovskaya, with whom the artist lived in a civil marriage, speaks of him with warmth in her interviews, admitting that thanks to him she learned a lot in life. After a divorce from his first official wife, Nino Uchaneishvili, Soso remained on friendly terms with her. Probably the secret is that he respects women and is ready to carry them in his arms. But the love of his life, Irina, he had to first track down, sitting in ambush. True, it is better for him to tell about it himself.
How did you meet?
Irina Patlakh:“I was sixteen years old then, I studied at the theater studio of the Palace of Pioneers, in the building of which the Soso studio was also located.”
Soso Pavliashvili:“Once a sound engineer told me that a very beautiful girl came in and asked me to rewrite my song “I'm with you” on her disc. This message intrigued me, because at that time young girls mostly listened to other music, such as, for example, the Hands Up! group. And the fact that the stranger was also beautiful interested me doubly, because then I was a womanizer on an all-Union scale. And I decided to watch her. It can be said that he was sitting in an ambush. Finally she appeared, but, as time showed, I became a victim. Because I fell in love with her."
What do you remember about the first meeting?
Irina:“He looked at me like a boa constrictor at a small bird. He has such amazing energy that he cannot leave anyone, not a single person indifferent. I stood and looked at him as if spellbound, thinking little. This was the first impression. Soso turned out to be a very kind, hospitable, endearing person, and most importantly, very professional. We immediately developed friendly relations. There was no talk of any romantic feelings at that time.
Soso:“We were united by our love for music. And our communication was based on this.
Irina:“Then Soso met my parents. At first they were wary of him. Still, we have a sixteen-year age difference. But they quickly fell under his stunning charm.
Soso, and then, when you began to live with Irina, did the attitude of her father and mother towards you change?
Soso:"No. They realized that I love her infinitely. And such a difference in age is just what you need.
Irina:“I have wonderful and wise parents. They saw that I was happy with Soso. For them, this was the main thing. And what is important: knowing Soso quite well, they respect him and trust him. We are one big family."
Soso:“We even have apartments in the same building and on the same floor. Closer to each other."
Is it true that Irina worked in your musical group?
Soso:“Irochka sang and danced beautifully, and I invited her to work in my team. And it's amazing how easily she joined him, quickly became her own. We had to tour a lot, and at some point we practically never parted.
Was it then that friendship was replaced by love?
Irina:“It is difficult to say when it happened. There was no turning point, imperceptibly for us, the relationship flowed into another stage.
Soso:“And when we were confirmed in our feelings, I said to Ira:“ You must give birth to me. I saw that she was ready for this step. And a year later, Lisa was born.
Soso, weren't you disappointed that a girl was born and not a boy? After all, most men dream of a son.
Soso:"Vice versa. I have a son from my first marriage, I know what it's like to be the father of a boy. This is a great joy. Now Levan is an adult, and we have a relationship like friends. But when a girl is born, it is completely different. Maybe, at twenty-five or thirty years old, a man still does not fully realize what an indescribable happiness it is to be the father of a daughter. They are so affectionate, defenseless and caring from a young age. When I'm talking on the phone with Lisa and she asks: “Daddy, how are you feeling? Are you all right? “- you can’t imagine what tenderness fills the heart at this moment.”
Soso, since you are not the first child, you probably calmly expected the appearance of Lisa, as befits an experienced father?
Irina:"Yes you! He was very worried, he was eager to give birth with me. His doctors forced him out of the ward. I still remember how he then looked at me and repeated: “How will you be here without me ?! Will I be there without you?!” It was very touching, but also funny. That day, Soso had a concert, the doctors assured him that I would not give birth until five hours later, and he went to the performance. But I “shot back” much faster and called my husband to inform that our child had already been born. And going on stage, he said, addressing the audience: “Five minutes ago my daughter was born!”
Soso:“These are unforgettable moments, and what was happening in my soul is generally impossible to put into words.”
Was the birth of the second daughter, according to tradition, also met on stage?
Soso:"No. At that moment I was in St. Petersburg. And when Irochka called me, I got on the plane, intending to fly to Moscow. The first reaction is surprise. We only talked in the morning, she was going somewhere - either shopping, or on some business ... But there was not even a conversation about the fact that she was about to give birth.
Irina:“Just remembering what a commotion the first birth caused, I decided not to worry anyone. And without saying a word to anyone, she got ready and went to the hospital. And I was calm, because my relatives were not nervous, and the surprise turned out to be wonderful.
And who came up with the names for the children?
Soso:“We named our eldest daughter Elizabeth, because I always liked the name Lisa. But with the younger it turned out more interesting. We thought we were having a boy. And they were going to call him Sandro. Then Irochka, returning from the ultrasound, said that we would have another girl. It is worth noting that this news made me very happy. Another daughter, one can only dream of! True, we decided not to change the name that we wanted to give the baby, but to take its female version - Sandra.
Irina:“It is noteworthy that Lisa had a favorite doll, with which she played more often than with other toys. And she called her Sandra - long before we knew she was going to have a sister."
Irina, men often talk about their fatherly feelings, but rarely actually take care of children ...
Irina:“This is not about Soso. He is a crazy father. Ready to protect children even from me if I am too strict. And I have to be like that when it comes to serious parenting issues, like school homework. Lisa is very stubborn. And in order to make her do homework, you have to be harsh. This responsibility lies with me, because Soso does not want to spoil relations with children. To be honest, I understand him and I'm already thinking about hiring a professional teacher who would work with my daughter. I want to be a mom, not a teacher. Moreover, the current school curriculum is very confusing and less systematized than the one we studied. Kids are having a much harder time now. In addition, Soso knows how to create an amazing atmosphere around children, they feel that they grow up in love and care. It's one thing to say "I have a dad", and another thing to feel it, even when your father is away. They feel his attention and warmth always.
Soso:“Just the other day I returned from a tour, called home from the airport. Lisa is sick. The voice is sad. I told her: “My girl, what can I bring you? Do you want flowers?” She: “Yes, I do.” Me: “What kind of flowers do you want?” Her: “Red roses.” And I brought a huge bouquet. By the way, Lisa accepts gifts very nicely. In general, the girls are used to the fact that I give them and their mother flowers.
Irina:"Yes. We do not have to wait for holidays for gifts and bouquets. I have always sympathized with those women whose men only pay attention to them on March 8th. In our family, this holiday lasts all year round. Moreover, Soso, in order to prepare a surprise for us, is not looking for some reason, he pleases us just like that.
Soso:“In fact, it gives me pleasure to make Irochka and daughters pleasant. For me, the main thing is to see their smiles, their eyes when they receive some gift or flowers.”
So you spoil girls?
Irina: No, we just love them. And it doesn't harm them. When they see such an attitude towards themselves, their own concern for loved ones becomes natural for them. For example, I really do not like to get up early in the morning, it was very difficult for me to get up early to collect Lisa for school. And suddenly my daughter began to set her own alarm clock, wakes up, gets ready for school, and I just cook breakfast for her. Baby wants to give me the opportunity to sleep longer. And besides, it shows independence. She is eight years old, and she is already trying to take good care of her parents.”
Irina, you are a psychologist by training, but you do not work by profession. Is it related to family life?
Irina:"No. I chose the profession consciously, it is very interesting, psychologists really provide significant assistance to those who need it. But, alas, as practice shows, in our country people prefer to cry into a pillow or tell their friends and girlfriends about their problems, instead of turning to a psychologist who will help resolve this or that situation. This specialty is not in demand as much as it seemed to me.”
And I thought it was your husband who decided to tie you to the house ...
Soso:"No. And if she herself wanted to stay at home, I would kick her out so that she would take care of herself and what she was interested in. She is young, beautiful, full of ideas and creative plans, she needs to realize her plans. For example, now she is interested in design.”
Design is a very unusual occupation for a psychologist…
Irina:“Since childhood, I loved to draw and make some kind of jewelry. I remember weaving baubles fashionable for those times for myself and my friends. But I didn’t manage to realize this hobby before, and I didn’t even think about it. But when Soso and I bought an apartment and started thinking about what our housing would look like, I was inspired. Of course, it was not without the participation of professional designers, from whom I learned a lot, but I thought over some elements myself.
Soso:“In addition, we ordered most of the finishing materials from abroad - thanks to the fact that Irochka speaks fluent English. As a result, it cost us several times cheaper than if we bought everything in Russia.”
Soso, probably, also took part in choosing the interiors for the new house?
Irina:“At the beginning, yes. We basically knew what we wanted. But when they tried to explain each other in detail, they did not find understanding. For example, Soso said: "I want a burgundy bedroom." Go and understand what it means: a burgundy ceiling or burgundy walls ... I thought: my God, if you make the whole room in this color, some kind of horror will turn out! She began to create in her own way, because of which we argued a lot. The result was a bedroom in grayish-beige tones, and added burgundy due to pillows and bedspreads. When Soso saw the result, he said: “Here, this is just what I wanted.” And since during the repair it turned out that I was pregnant with my second child, he generally said that he would no longer argue with me, the main thing was my peace of mind.
But you have long celebrated housewarming. What about design skills now?
Irina:“My husband is a very attentive and sensitive person. Soso noticed how much I was fascinated by this activity. Therefore, when he, together with partners, began to engage in the restaurant business, they entrusted me with the design of this institution. You can't even imagine how happy I was. It was so interesting! Fortunately, the restaurant is not far from our house, so I had time to take care of my family, my home, and my project. They say it went well."
Soso:“It worked out great! Truth be told, I never doubted for a moment that you would do a great job. Our restaurant has good cuisine, but when people come to such a place, it is very important what the surroundings are like, it creates the atmosphere of the establishment. I am proud to say that my wife invented and created this. Believe me, Ira's success is no less significant for me than my own, and sometimes more expensive.
Irina: “Now this is our favorite place. Here we spend all family holidays. One might say, a branch of our house for business meetings and gala dinners.
By the way, if the conversation turned to the kitchen, Soso grew up in Tbilisi, and Georgia is famous for its traditional dishes. Irina, were you not forced to comprehend the wisdom of national cuisine?
Irina:"No. When my husband's mother comes to us (by the way, she is visiting us right now), she pampers us with Georgian dishes. And so ... In our family there is no cult of food. We just rejoice when we all get together at the same table, regardless of what dishes we have for lunch or dinner. True, I will tell you a secret: we have a special menu for the time that Soso is on tour. The fact is that after being fed fish oil as a child, he cannot stand fish. In the literal sense of the word, he can’t stand her spirit, he becomes ill from the smell of a fish being prepared. So we came up with a good compromise. We introduce fish days while our head of the family is on tour.”
Soso, you yourself admitted that you were a womanizer. How did you part with this “life credo”?
Soso:“It's just that everything I need is in my wife. Why do I need someone else? I have already found the woman I was looking for, with whom I want to live my life. And my main concern is that she was well. I won't do anything to hurt her. Therefore, the passion for women is a thing of the distant past.
They say it's very hard to be an artist's wife...
Soso:“It seems to me that we don’t have such a problem, because I am an artist on stage, and after finishing the concert, I leave the microphone behind the scenes and return home as just a man, husband and father. Yes, there are such persons who, having entered the image, get stuck in it and never part with it. Therefore, they have problems both in their personal lives and in everyday communication with people. I have a clear line: here is work, there is life. That's why I'm happy."
It is believed that creative people are extremely impulsive ...
Irina:“For example, I am also emotional and impulsive. It happens that I got hooked on some trifle, sucked the problem out of my finger and I’m getting ready to tell my husband everything that I’ve twisted in my head. And Soso is so sensitive that he easily catches my state. Suitable at such a moment with the right words, and it immediately disarms. And it already seems stupid and ridiculous to me that five minutes ago it seemed like a reason for conflict. By the way, he inherited such a strong intuition from his mother.
So you don't fight at all?
Irina:“Why, it happens ... Is there really a family life without disagreements, especially if people really love each other and, therefore, react sharply to some events, words, feelings of their half ?! And plus mutual trust, which allows you to splash out what has accumulated when communicating with the outside world. Someone offended or nasty, some difficulties in business ... To whom to expose the sore, if not to a loved one?
Soso:“Yes, in our family all-round defense. I try to protect my girls - Ira, Lisa and Sandra - from the outside, and Ira - from the inside.
Irina:“But even when we fight, which is rare, everything goes smoothly. The maximum that can happen is to break a plate on the floor. So this is good luck! But we have a sacred rule: we never conflict in front of our daughters, we don’t even raise our voice in their presence.”
Irina, is it not necessary to be jealous of her husband?
Irina:“I'm only jealous of football. He loves him too much."
Soso:“But Irochka does not delight him ... But she tolerates this hobby of mine. However, I don't have any fanatical addictions to this or that club. I just love a beautiful and addictive game. I like having talented players on the field. By the way, my daughters watch matches with me, but they don’t sit out the entire ninety minutes. Although when they were very young, I took them in my arms and watched the championships with them.
You have a civil marriage. Aren't you going to formalize the relationship?
Soso:“We have not yet needed this stamp in the passport. We are already a family, without any official papers. But it is quite possible that we will sign ... I want you to understand that the main thing is that certain relationships arise between people. We are connected by something that so many who have a marriage certificate in their hands do not have. We have love, respect, family. And all this actually exists, although without “documentary” confirmation.”
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In searching of love
Information about the first wife of Soso Pavliashvili is practically absent. It is known that the girl was taken by Nino and was originally from Georgia. They got married in 1985, after the guy returned from the army. In marriage, their son Levan was born.
But it was difficult to call the marriage happy. Almost immediately after the wedding, Soso went to conquer Moscow and luck smiled at her. He became a recognizable singer there and his career gradually went uphill.
In numerous interviews, the singer himself admitted that their long-distance relationship was doomed. He visited Tbilisi no more than a week a year, in Moscow he was surrounded by many beautiful women.
With one of these, the singer Irina Ponarovskaya, the rumor married the Georgian singer. Information about their relationship is very contradictory.
According to some sources, it was a stormy and passionate romance, according to others - a creative union with a touch of romance. At the time of the development of a romantic relationship between the two artists, they were both married.
How long exactly the relationship between Ponarovskaya and Pavliashvili lasted is difficult to say. But they ended abruptly. Simply - without quarrels and accusations. Irina was waiting for a marriage proposal from her chosen one, but he did not dare to do so.
Arriving home in Tbilisi, Soso had a difficult conversation with his wife. He tried to deny the affair on the side, even if it was such a long one. But Nino did not believe it and the couple broke up.
Fateful meeting
In 1996, the singer suffered a terrible accident, after which he recovered for a long time. Doctors after a long stage of rehabilitation allowed him to resume concert and touring activities. But then there were other health problems.
During this period of life, on the way Soso Pavliashvili met a young girl. At the time of their meeting, Irina was only 16 years old. One fine day, she approached the singer to ask for an autograph and immediately sunk into his soul.
They talked for a few minutes about music. The girl admitted that she really likes Pavliashvili's songs, which surprised the singer indescribably. He was surprised that such a young girl is familiar with his work and loves him.
From that moment on, the singer decided to woo the girl. It was very easy to do this, because Irina the artist was very nice. They were comfortable with each other. They were each other's support, friends and lovers. This union was also supported by Irina's parents, which helped young people make a choice.
Exemplary family man
For a very long time, Irina and Soso lived in a civil marriage. The girl was happy in this relationship and did not insist on a stamp in her passport. So in a civil marriage, the couple had two beautiful daughters.
During one of his performances, Soso Pavliashvili asked Irina to come on stage with her daughters. There, on the stage, he got down on one knee and handed the girl a box with a ring. With an audience of thousands, he invited Irina to become his wife. And of course she happily agreed.
Interesting Notes:
Before meeting with the singer, Irina was engaged in choreography and even took her first steps in her singing career. Now she has completely devoted herself to the house and the upbringing of her two daughters.
She also intends to equip the house, which was built in the suburbs. The girl has absolutely no regrets and is completely happy in family life.
Friendly and big family
Despite the fact that Pavliashvili is happy in his second marriage he is on excellent terms with his first wife. She didn’t get married after the divorce, and the main man in her life is her son. The son has been living with his father in Moscow for a long time and is engaged in the construction business.
The current Pavliashvili family, Irina's parents and his son from his first marriage live in the same house, which is located in the center of Moscow. The apartments of Soso and his relatives are located on different floors. Their doors are open to guests at any time.
Very often, Nino also flies to visit his son in Moscow. Her relationship is developing well not only with her son and ex-husband, but also with Irina Patlakh, as well as her children.
Today, Soso Pavliashvili considers himself a happy man, because there is something in his life that gives meaning and that pulled him out of the abyss of hopelessness.
Singer's first marriage
Soso Pavliashvili lived with his first wife for 18 years. He met Nino Uchaneishvili in Tbilisi before he became a popular singer. A son was born in marriage, who studied at the Suvorov Military School and graduated from the Military Technical University. For some time, the woman did not realize that her husband had another. She and her son lived in Tbilisi, and Soso often traveled to Moscow. The man called his wife with him, but she could not leave and leave her sick mother.
After a while, news began to appear in the media that the singer had a second wife. Soso Pavliashvili began dating a dancer in the capital. Soon the lovers began to live together.
The second wife of Soso Pavliashvili - Irina
Irina Patlakh was born in 1981. The popular singer met a girl when he was 33 years old. At that time, Ira was barely 16, after the concert she approached the singer for an autograph. Pavliashvili was seriously carried away by the girl, fortunately, her parents were not against such a relationship. The age difference between Soso Pavliashvili and his wife Irina is about 16 years.
The singer's first wife did not comment on her husband's betrayal for a long time, but when she could no longer remain silent, she directly asked her husband about her mistress. At first, Soso Pavliashvili did not confirm his wife's assumptions, but after a while he packed his bags and went to his young wife Irina.
The second wife of Soso Pavliashvili (there is a photo of the woman in the article) gave birth to two daughters to the popular singer. In December 2004, the girl Lisa, and after another 4 years Sandra.
Spouse support
As it turned out, in 1996 Soso Pavliashvili had a serious accident, after which he suffered from epilepsy for 7 years. The young wife was there all this time and supported the man. According to Pavliashvili, he repeatedly persuaded the woman to leave him, but Irina did not give up and helped her husband not to lose faith in a brighter future.
The wife herself in an interview said that these years were perhaps the most difficult in her life. But in all this time, she never once thought about leaving her husband. According to Irina, epileptic attacks appeared at night and the husband himself could not understand what was happening to him. Before the onset of each new attack of the disease, he talked in his sleep.
Despite the acute course of the disease in Soso, the beloved nevertheless decided to have a child. The baby, born in 2004, was able to become a guardian angel for the singer. As Soso Pavliashvili himself says, it was after the birth of Lisa that he began to recover and as a result his epileptic attacks stopped. He recovered without any medical intervention. Although he was going to do a trepanation of the skull.
Planning a wedding with Irina
Despite the excellent relationship of the couple, officially Soso Pavliashvili is still not Irina's legal spouse. Three and a half years ago, in October 2014, at his own concert, the singer proposed his hand and heart to his beloved woman in front of a million viewers, but the solemn event never took place.
According to Soso, they are going to get married, but the exact date of the event has not yet been specified. Irina in one of the interviews assured that there would be no big wedding, but the painting and the wedding would definitely take place. The event dedicated to the official marriage will most likely take place in Moscow. By the way, this year the relationship between Soso Pavliashvili and Irina turns 20 years old. The lovers are busy raising children and are preparing to move to a new country house, the renovation of which has almost come to an end.
"Temperamental, handsome, vociferous, intelligent, courteous"... All these words are intended for a true gentleman on the Russian stage - Soso Pavliashvili. The titles are given at their true worth, none of the representatives of Russian show business can compare with his gallantry.
Biography
Soso was born in the summer of June 29, 1964 in the capital of the Georgian SSR, in the family of an architect and a housewife. The mother of our hero was a very creative person and insisted that the child study music. By the age of six, the boy already played the violin perfectly, took part in various children's competitions, received awards and prizes. By the end of school, the issue of choosing a profession was already resolved. Pavliashvili did not even doubt what he would devote his future to. Music attracted him, he had an excellent voice and hearing.
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Immediately after graduating from school, Joseph Raminovich entered the Tbilisi Conservatory. He was noted as a special student with excellent musical abilities, striving for the full development of his talent. His teachers were leading figures of Georgian art. The guy plunged into the classes with a soul, completely devoted himself to all the subjects taught. And as a result, he became the best student of the Tbilisi Conservatory in its entire history. After successfully passing the exams, Soso went to fulfill his honorable duty - to serve in the SA.
Service in the army was a turning point for Soso Pavliashvili. A gifted young man, accustomed to soloing on the violin, sang the song for the first time on the army stage. After a successful performance, he already knew that he would develop a career as a vocalist. At 24, he was demobilized and went home.
Arriving from the army, the musician dared to visit the legendary Georgian musical group Iveria and ask to join it. The entire Soviet Union knew about this ensemble, their compositions were constantly heard on the radio. To his surprise, Pavliashvili was accepted immediately, and his work with talented musicians lasted a year. This period gave the young talent invaluable experience and skills, as a result he became a professional performer and musician.
In 1989, the first competition for young performers took place in Jurmala. Soso decided to become one of the participants and received the main prize. His rivals were Valeria, Kormukhina, Zakirova. Thanks to the festival, the country saw new faces, young performers, including the rising star Soso Pavliashvili. After Jurmala, life flowed along a creative channel, and the Georgian singer became one of the most popular in the USSR.
The victory brought the talented singer several contracts, according to which he began to tour throughout the country and neighboring countries. The first album was released in 1983, which exaggerated the success many times over. Literally a couple of years later, Pavliashvili released the next album, which was sold out in a matter of days. Invitations followed to participate in television projects, the picture "The Adventures of Pinocchio" brought incredible success to Pavliashvili as an actor. Frequent visits to the capital of Russia became the reason for a complete relocation. Since the end of the 90s, the “real Georgian” has become a Muscovite.
The end of the 90s was marked by amazing hits - “Let's Pray for Parents”, then the groovy and rhythmic songs “Georgian is waiting for you”, “Me and you” were performed. The singer was invited to the best concerts, festive events.
No state celebrations could do without it, the number of released records increased. Soso Pavliashvili was not only a performer, but also a composer of hit songs. His repertoire also includes songs to Reznik's verses, to the music of Osiashvili, Tanich. The singer was repeatedly invited to the cinema, and he did an excellent job with the roles in 12 films.
Personal life
In 2013, the press and television reported on a crime allegedly committed by a favorite of the public. According to sources, the singer and his friends ordered the murder of businessman Aduashvili. The Tbilisi prosecutor's office sent an official request for the arrest of Pavliashvili. Many were worried about this, but soon all charges were dropped, the singer was released. Creative career continues to grow. Pavliashvili performs at every festive evening, pleases the audience with a beautiful voice.
The love affairs of a temperamental Georgian were often written in the press. The first wife was Nino Uchaneishvili, who gave birth to the musician's son Levan. They did not live together for long, but they still maintain friendly relations. Upon arrival in Moscow, the singer developed a close relationship with the popular singer Irina Ponarovskaya, but the couple did not dare to register the union. They were united not only by feelings, but also by joint creativity. The union lasted for several years. In 1997, Soso met the singer Irina Patlakh, who worked as a backing vocalist. The couple had two daughters, Lisa and Sandra.
The eldest son from his first marriage is a frequent guest in his father's house and maintains close and warm relations with him. Singer Pavliashvili feels like a happy husband and father, and does not intend to change anything in his personal life.
And there are good reasons for that. For ten years now, the heart of the "singer of love" has been given to one single woman - the former dancer and singer of the Pavliashvili musical group and just a wonderful person - Irina Patlakh. Two years ago, their daughter Lisa was born. Now their family is in complete harmony. But it was preceded by a whole series of trials, misunderstandings and gossip.
Soso and Irina overcame all difficulties and today, in the MOST exclusive interview with our portal, they talk in detail about their relationship - without hiding and embarrassment.
- Tell us about your first impressions, how you saw each other ...
Irina: Tell me!
Soso: No, tell me! Come on, come on!
Irina: It was in the Palace of Pioneers, where I went to study at the drama studio. Soso's studio was and still is nearby. One day I saw him, I decided to get an autograph. Came up and said: "Hello!" He was sitting with his back to me. And so slowly, slowly turned around. With a serious face - and broke into a smile. And I thought: “Here, cool such! Not pretentious!”
Soso: Although Irochka was very young, I immediately noticed that she was a very beautiful girl, I saw her roundness. I remember she was standing on some kind of huge heels, similar to irons - such a platform was then in vogue. And at first I thought: “Shizanuty! But appetizing! She was then sixteen. And after the first minutes of communication, I was touched by something else. This new generation girl said that she was crazy about my songs, especially one of the most lyrical songs - “I'm with you!”
Irina: In principle, I came to ask for a soundtrack of this song, because I also sang and wanted to ask permission to perform this composition.
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Soso: I was very pleased. Because then everyone listened to “Tender May”, and then a young girl comes up and just asks for good music. Do not think, I do not praise myself: it's just that the music that I write comes from outer space, I pass it through myself. Something worse, something better...
- Which of you was the first to be active in a relationship?
Soso: As a man, of course, I started to take the initiative first. But as a girl, for her part, Irina was also not idle. It was obvious to me that our interest in each other was mutual.
Irina: Oh! He was very proactive! But I, as far as possible, restrained this initiative. Although it was not easy (smiles).
- Soso, what did you like most about Ira?
Soso: Her parents! When I met her family, I realized that they are very advanced, modern people. And somehow, without much effort, we became friends. If not for this, Irishka and I would not have stayed together.
- And what struck you Soso?
Irina: I remember how on the first day I stayed at the studio when he was recording the song "Me and You". We sat until night, and I talked with his musicians, watched him. Then I realized what a great guy he is, what a creative person and what he does in music. This attracted me greatly. Only in this way I realized what an expressive and bright man he is.
Did you do any surprises for him?
Irina: At first, we talked as if we were going to reconnaissance. I was interested in everything about this adult man, the artist. For my part, I tried to impress him somehow, to make him laugh. I came to the concert under the guise of a journalist and pretended to be interviewing him.
- What about the distance between you?
Irina: He was too temperamental, and I had to restrain this pressure. But there was a pleasant feeling - that he was delighted with me.
- Didn't it scare you that he had a lot of women, a lot of experience and a lot of fans?
Irina: Why should this scare me? (smiles) On the contrary, I was pleased that among all the fans he chooses me. And why do I need an abandoned man who no one needs? On the contrary, I relied on his experience, and the development of our relationship was interesting to me. It was immediately obvious that he was a sincere person, that there would be no meanness from him. And everything else is great when there is real passion between people, a romance!
- Why did you need such a young girl? Couldn't you have chosen a more experienced lady?
Soso: If we are talking about sex now, then I can sleep with anyone. But Irka was special. I can't even draw parallels. She became for me not just a girl whose location I sought. I was pleased to feel her spontaneity. This girl had a sincere reciprocal feeling for me, she was all at a glance. And I, along with a purely masculine interest, from the first minutes of communication with her felt responsible for her as a senior. It was an unusual, wonderful feeling for me. Our relationship developed not only as a stormy romance, but also as a friendship. She was interested in me, and I was interested in her.
Irina: It was during this period of serious courtship that Soso began to have health problems. And then I no longer doubted that he needed it.
Soso: I could call at three in the morning, say that I feel bad, and not even hint: come! She herself came. Despite her beautiful rounded shapes (smiles), Irochka still turned out to be a true friend. And I needed this friendship much more than sex. Ira will not let me lie: I then tried my best to make sure that she did not get used to me. Didn't really connect. I considered myself a lone wolf, a person around whom there are too many problems. And I didn't want her to be constantly in the circle of these problems. But Irka is stubborn by nature, and even now I cannot defeat this stubbornness. If she sets a goal, she will simply achieve it.
- So which one of you sought location?
Soso: I succeeded in picking her “bud”, and she achieved this state: today Irochka and I and our little daughter are a real family.
- Ira, did you boast to your girlfriends that you had an affair with Pavliashvili?
Irina: And I never had real girlfriends either. Most of my peers are not very goal-oriented people, many got into bad company. And I did not share my life with them, because we were, as it were, from different planets.
Soso: But I also had a hand in ensuring that all her girlfriends left us alone. Because even those few friends who surrounded her usually called when they had difficulties of a different nature. And I just sent them all in three letters (smiles). We are together. And we do not need anyone in life. Irka, indeed, in education and mind was different from her peers. And one of our first conversations with her parents was just about this. I said: “Look at her classmates, peers! Do you want her to repeat their path? To watch in the entrance how they smoke or drink beer? Let her be better with me, learn a lot of good things from me, be protected!”
- Did they believe you?
Believed! God bless them for entrusting their daughter to me, although there was no question of any guarantees. The question of marriage was not even discussed. But I felt a huge responsibility for Ira. I just couldn't offend her under any circumstances. She was not just a friend to me - she was a daughter, a child ... And she trusted me much more than her parents.
- Was Ira the only one for you at that time?
No one dared to encroach on my personal freedom. I continued to date women. But, apparently, such a serious feeling was already arising in me, which I myself did not understand at first. Irka has already become truly dear to me. And if I were an ordinary pop singer, I wouldn't care what happens to this girl. But I just had no right to offend her. I needed her devotion.
- So the relationship did not develop right away?
Gradually, with trials. When I didn’t have a penny of money, but only problems, I told her: “You are a young beautiful girl, your father is a wealthy person, plays tennis with Yeltsin, works in prestigious places ... You will find your happiness, you will go abroad ... Don't get attached to me. It is forbidden! I am a man without tomorrow." I had that feeling of life at that moment.
- How did Ira react to this?
She said in response: “But I am not interested in tomorrow. I live for today. I am happy with you today! And she didn't leave me. And then, little by little, things began to unravel. You know, in principle, I deserved a good attitude: after all, I was not a drug addict, an alcoholic, a psychopath. I am an artist who needs understanding. And I am grateful to this young stubbornness and loyalty of her (smiles).
- Really for so much time she did not give a reason to be jealous? After all, a young girl loves to play pranks, flirt, flirt ...
My horoscope is Cancer. Jealousy is the lot of every Cancer. And this is normal. If you don't love, don't be jealous. We've been together for ten years. And, probably, outbursts of jealousy do not allow us to fall asleep and miss each other. Jealousy is a good paint in a relationship. Orgasm from jealousy is brighter. And I don't even think about cheating!
- Can I say that you helped Ira take an adult look at the relationship between a man and a woman?
Irka's character is this: she wanted to show herself in front of me. Not even as a woman, but as a teenager. And I had to be patient to educate her, as I raised my son Levan. And this is not just a relationship between a man and a woman, but a completely different approach. There was a time: I put pressure on her and showed aggressiveness. But now, looking back, I understand: if I had not done this, we would not have been together.
- Did Ira have enough wisdom not to be offended and not to accumulate resentment?
God forbid! She is too determined. She just wanted to be with me and nothing else mattered. I did not understand then why she needed it. And now I am grateful to her for her patience and natural wisdom: we are all happy people together. And this is our common world. And Lisa is with us.
- It is believed that each song of the composer is a love story. Some composers say that they dedicate all the songs in their lives to one woman. And how are you?
If I say tomorrow: “Ira, I don’t recognize a single woman except you!” She will spit in my face. My art belongs to all people. My songs are my heart. And I put my whole male being into it. Ira is absolutely right about this. I would like women to always believe me and cry only from happiness. All my songs are written for this. Irka has always been proud that women love me and trust me. She herself is always for women, in any conflict she takes the female side - so that no one oppresses them, does not humiliate them.
- How did Ira find a common language with Levan?
They were not looking for a common language, they just grew up together. Ira, Levan and Irkin brother Danya. And when it came time to explain something, I sat Levan next to me and asked: “Do you want me to be happy?” He agreed. And then I said: "Wait for my sister."
- Who made the decision to live together as one family? And how did you decide to live with Ira's parents?
And we love it! And we found a common language a long time ago. And now, when it became possible to build a family country house, where everything is good and spacious, it is generally wonderful. Ira's mother, Larisa, bought a piano especially for me, because I miss my piano, which I left in my apartment. We also go on vacation with the whole family. And we are very good together. Now I have my own flock.
- Can we say that you brought the traditions of the Georgian family into the family of your girlfriend?
Certainly! I am a Tbilisi person. And in Moscow, I really missed such a family life. My heart is in Tbilisi. And the closer we live, the better! We are now building new apartments in Moscow, and I also intend to move my mother and father from Tbilisi.
- What determines the intensity of passions in the family? How not to get bored with each other in a relationship?
Soso: It all depends on the woman! If I wake up in the morning and wonder every day how scary she is, I'd rather run away from her altogether. Why do men start looking for something somewhere? Because in their lair they see no joy.
- At the beginning of your relationship, Ira danced and sang in a team. Now she has completely forgotten about creative activity?
Soso: We came up with this creative activity later, so that we had something to do (smiles). And at first I just fell in love with her as a man. I had a simple desire to possess a beautiful girl. Well, then I already did everything so that this beautiful woman would be with me as much as possible - both on tour and in Moscow.
Irina: I have not stopped being a creative person. I like to sing and dance. And in Moscow now I am again performing with Soso, and we go on tour together when it is possible to take Lisa with us, and the conditions allow us to live as a family.
- Soso, are you a happy man?
As a man, I am absolutely happy. I know that not only do I get happiness, but I also bring happiness and pleasure to my loved ones. The main thing is that I am not alone, as I was a few years ago.
- Ira, and you?
I have the same feelings and thoughts. But I would like to realize myself more in creativity. Now I am a beloved mother, a beloved daughter, a beloved woman. Everything is great with me. But still, I love to sing and I want to do it further. But this does not mean that I want to become a pop star ...
Soso: You are already a star! Trust my word...
Irina: You are witnessing the beginning of a family scandal ... (exchanging glances, laughing)
- What can you wish to couples who are just starting to live together?
Soso: Don't look for yourself. Everything will come by itself. I believe that any two people can get along with each other if they are united by the main goal - to be together. If someone does not want to give in, but wants to prove something, this is the cause of all conflicts. At the beginning of my life together, I had a conversation with Ira: if we want to be together, then we will be together. And if we don’t want to, then we don’t have to torture each other. And it's not about the child, not about some kind of responsibility: if you don't want to live with a person, then you shouldn't do it.
Irina: The mistake of many young people who start a life together is that they try to figure everything out “on the shore”, proving something to each other, forgetting about compromises. No need to run ahead of the locomotive, you should not invent conflicts when there are none. Let everything go by itself. You just need to be able to enjoy each other.
Soso Pavliashvili is a well-known Georgian performer, who has also gained immense popularity in Russia. This singer performed many hits that were remembered for many years. Soso is a real Georgian man who has conquered many women's hearts.
There were many women in the life of our hero. And with 3 of them, he even dared to start a family. So the first wife of the artist was Nino Uchaneishvili. This woman gave her husband the first son - Levan. He was born in 1987. Unfortunately, this marriage did not last long, but the former spouses still communicate and get along well with each other.
The next choice of the Georgian was the singer Irina Ponarovskaya. For a long time the couple lived together, but they did not have time to get married. Their relationship soon fizzled out. We do not know anything about the reasons for the breakup.
Soso and Irina Ponarovskaya
And in 1997, Soso married the singer Irina Patlakh, a former member of the Mironi group. The future spouses met very funny. 16-year-old Irina ran up to Pavliashvili for an autograph and said that she really liked his work. The sweet young girl immediately took a liking to Soso.
Since then, the couple began to communicate, and the singer began to take steps to win the heart of his beloved. Irina's parents also played a big role in the development of relations. They turned out to be very smart and modern and did not interfere with the relationship of lovers. In addition, Soso easily found a common language with them.
Soso Pavliashvili with his wife Irina Patlakh
Irina and Soso became not only lovers for each other, but first of all good and close friends. At first, the singer tried to keep his distance, he did not want to become attached to anyone, and he was afraid that Irina would only get worse with him.
But the girl was persistent, she loved Soso and became closer to him every day. At the initial stage, the relationship between lovers endured many trials.
Soso and Irina
Soso was not rich then and did not want Ira to live with a man who does not know what he will do tomorrow. He wanted the best for his beloved, what he himself was not able to give.
But despite this, Ira stayed with him. She did not care about his position, she promised that together they would cope with all the difficulties. And so it happened. Now Soso has a strong family, a beloved wife and two wonderful joint children - daughters Liza and Sandra.
Soso with his wife and children
