Another concert died down. He was not like many of the previous ones. It did not have Svyatoslav. Not so long ago, Obraztsov died, one might say, quite recently. He left, despite his strength, the boundless faith of all members of the group.
Life cannot end with the death of one the only person. Can not. Can't it?..
The leader of the Picnic slung his bag over his shoulder and looked around the small room with a tired look. Everyone had already left a long time ago, except for Shklyarsky himself, only Leonid remained in the room, who had already packed his things and was preparing to leave.
Edmund went to the mirror in full height and looked at himself: he seems to have lost even more weight, and under his eyes, on unusually pale skin, dark bruises stand out as a reminder of sleepless nights. The passing of a friend is an incredibly heavy loss that seems to affect everything that remains. A very small number of people helped to still stand on their feet, stay in the earthly world and not go into the realm of memories, prejudices and spiritual darkness. Speaking of one of those people...
- Where is Marat? Shklyarsky asked the drummer in a low voice, looking at his reflection in the mirror.
“I don’t know, I hope that he disappeared or disappeared under the cover of night,” Kirnos snorted in response and, in response to the leader’s displeased, almost angry look, turned around and hurried to leave the room.
The door slammed against his sensitive ears. Edmund just sighed as he put on his dark glasses.
Lenya was not ready to accept someone in the place of Light, and especially Korchemny, whom for some reason he had long and strongly disliked. And no matter how much the frontman explains that he, in turn, is not ready to see someone other than Marat in this place, no matter how hard it would be to see a stranger in Obraztsov's place, Kirnos seemed to pass all this on deaf ears, without keeping this information in my head.
The bassist's bag was against the wall, which meant he hadn't left yet. But where he went is unknown. Slowly shifting to Lately like legs filled with lead, Shklyarsky went to the exit from the room, grabbing his comrade's bag. Korchemny had to be found, he couldn't be left in Nsk.
The corridor was quiet, the lights dimmed, not a soul around. Not so long ago, the local palace of culture, so lively, now seemed like a haunted house, empty, dead, cold. The atmosphere was added by a flashing light near the exit and a sudden noise from behind a door with a sign "technical staff room". Edmund frowned slightly, which would hardly have been noticeable to an outsider, and slowly pressed on the door handle. She gave in.
The room was dark, especially through the glasses. But Shklyarsky caught a slight movement, and he didn’t even need to guess who was here, however, this did not lessen his surprise.
- Marat? .. - the leader of the group raised his eyebrows inquiringly, so that the glasses slipped down the bridge of his nose a little.
- Edmund? - Much louder, apparently from surprise, the blond replied, staring at his friend in fright.
The maestro threw the bags into a corner and closed the door behind him. It didn't get much darker, since there was almost no light in the corridor, and here a dim light bulb was burning, sticking out above the door.
- I think we have to long conversation- Shklyarsky sighed heavily, approaching the bassist.
Korchemny swallowed nervously when Edmund was half a step away from him. The bass player now looked like a downtrodden kitten, whom he wanted to feel sorry for, hug and calm, but the Maestro perfectly controlled himself.
- What's happened? - calmly, even too calmly, almost apathetically, he asked.
- It may not be easy for you to understand this, but ... But it was so hard to stand on stage, in the place of Svyatoslav, and understand that you are not him. That the public looks at you with surprise, and someone even with hostility. Yes, even if we discard this, probably quite normal reaction, Ed, how strange it is just to feel and realize that you are standing on the same stage with a band that has been your beacon for almost all your life, can you imagine? And to understand that you are a part of it ... It's almost impossible, - the blond fell silent for a few seconds, but, in the end, he added, - I don't feel like a part of the mechanism, do you understand?
There was silence for a few seconds, but for Marat those few seconds seemed like a real eternity. Shklyarsky's face did not express exactly any emotions, as in many other situations. But for three years Korchemny has already learned to achieve some kind of reaction, or at least see it.
Carefully, as if afraid of something, the blond took off the dark glasses from the leader with two fingers ... And he was surprised to see obvious sympathy, some sadness and even pain in his eyes, which seemed dark dark green in such lighting. That's why the Maestro wore glasses. You could always tell too much from his eyes. The bassist felt somehow sick and uncomfortable from such a look. It seemed to him that he offended a comrade.
- Marat, - Shklyarsky raised his head a little more to look directly into the sad, slightly frightened greyish-blue eyes of the blond, which did not lose their color and charm even in the semi-darkness, - I understand everything. It’s not easy for you, the audience is not used to it yet, this is the first concert with you, - thin long fingers they squeezed the blond's tense wrist a little, - spit on Lenya, he will be killed. I hope you don't decide to leave, you don't decide to kill my soul.
- No, of course not! - Korchemny exclaimed, feeling his temples pounding from the touch on his wrist, which immediately relaxed, - What are you doing! Yes, not in life! I guess I just...
- You just need time to get comfortable and get into a working rhythm. As for the “mechanism”… You have been a part of it for a long time.
Marat smiled involuntarily. Unable to restrain himself any longer, he gently, as if afraid to break, like a crystal, hugged Edmund, finally exhaling with some relief. The maestro did not even think about freeing himself from the hugs. He felt unexpectedly warm, for some time troubles were forgotten, the whole world was forgotten and faded into the background. And what problems can there be next to the warmest person in the whole wide world?
“Everything will be fine,” Korchemny said quietly, running his hand down his comrade’s spine, then returning his palm back to his shoulder blades.
The bass player knew perfectly well how hard it was for Shklyarsky himself, and it was hard not to notice his fallen mood, which is completely unsurprising, an eternally sleepy and tired look. But Marat also knew that the Maestro did not like being dug into his head and imposed, so he tried to unobtrusively please, to give him all the attention in private and try to help him forget. And now I was a little ashamed of having hung my problems on my shoulders.
"I'm sorry," the blond whispered.
- For what? - Edmund asked a little surprised, clinging closer to the warm body and burying himself in any of his comrade's shoulders.
- I didn't want you to worry.
- Trivia.
A man might say, “I have a terrible blockage at work; I recently went through a breakup Serious relationships, which was a big blow for me; the divorce of my parents left an indelible mark on my soul and brought a lot of new troubles; now I need to focus on my career; I can't get into a relationship until things get better in my life; as soon as my situation improves, I will leave my wife, girlfriend, lousy job; I'm terribly busy."
It's easier for us to jump out of a window than to say, "You're not good for me." We are one hundred percent sure that in this case you will kill us or yourself, or both of us, or, even worse, start crying and screaming. Even if we do not talk about it, we clearly show you our attitude. Stop making excuses for us, our actions speak for themselves: you just don't like us.
1. He doesn't like you that much if he doesn't ask you out on a date.
Because if he likes you, trust me, he will definitely make an appointment with you.
1. Variant of excuse: He may not want to destroy our friendship
I hate to tell you about it, but this excuse does not stand up to scrutiny. Unfortunately, throughout the history of mankind, this excuse has never been used by those who really meant it. If we really care about a woman, we can't bring ourselves to stop - we want more. And please don't tell me he's just 'afraid'. The only thing he is afraid of - and I say this, feeling sincere sympathy for you - is to admit that you do not attract him at all.
2. Variant of excuse: He probably does not dare to take the first step
You can hint to a man that you have sympathy for him, but you should not help him ask you out on a date. I repeat again, dear ladies: the fact that you smile and playfully wink at him will be quite enough.
3. Variation of excuse: Maybe he doesn't want to rush things.
If a man really likes you, but there are deeply personal reasons why he does not want to rush things, he will immediately tell you about it. He will not leave you in the dark, as he needs confidence that you will not be disappointed and will not disappear from his life.
4. Excuse like "But he gave me his phone number"
Don't let him use cheap tricks to get you to ask him out on a date. If you are interested in a man, he will take care of everything. It sounds a bit old-fashioned, but when a man likes a woman, he asks her out.
5. Excuse like “Maybe he forgot about me”
Be sure you impress him. Now leave everything as it is. If he likes you, he will remember you even after the tsunami, the flood or the defeat of the Russian team in the next match. If he forgot about you, do not waste time on him. Do you know why? Because you are great.
- Any excuse essentially means that you are of little interest to him. Men are not afraid to “destroy friendships.”
- Don't fall for his tricks and don't ask him out on a date. If he likes you, he will invite you.
- If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.
- "Hey, let's meet at such-and-such a party / at some bar / at a friend's house" is not a date invitation. Even if you live in New York.
- A man remembers well whether he liked you when he met, so hang up.
- You are good enough to be asked out on a date.
2. He doesn't like you that much if he doesn't call you.
Men know how to use the phone
6. Excuse like "But he's on the road so often"
Take note: the man who is interested in you wants to spend time with you. And he will only be satisfied with five phone calls if he does not have time for a plane to rush to you.
7. Excuse like “But he has other things on his mind.”
Most important question here it sounds like this: “Is it normal if a man forgot to call me?” I answer: "No." Unless he needs to rush someone to the hospital, or if someone stole his Ferrari. He should never forget that he promised to call you. If I really like you, I will never forget about you. Don't you expect the kind of guy who would rather forget about everything that happened in his life than forget about you?
8. Excuse like "He doesn't say what he really thinks"
That's the whole problem: at the end of a date or telephone conversation many men tell you what they think you would like to hear. They think it's better than nothing. So if the guy you're dating doesn't call you despite all his promises, is it worth getting hung up on? After all, you need a man who can at least keep his word.
9. Excuse like "But he's very busy."
And now I'm going to make an outrageous, harsh and peremptory statement regarding the relationship between a man and a woman: the word "busy" is complete nonsense, donkeys usually use it. The word "busy" in one gulp can destroy any relationship. Extremely “busy” may seem like a compelling excuse, but in reality, behind this concept there is always a man who was not interested in calling you. Remember: men always have time to get what they want.
10. One hundred percent of the respondents of the stronger sex said: they will always find a minute to call the woman they really like.
- If he doesn't call you, then he doesn't care about you.
- If he makes promises and then fails you over small things, rest assured that the same thing will happen when it comes to more serious things. Keep this in mind and keep in mind that this guy will not have a hard time disappointing you.
- You should not build a relationship with someone who is not able to keep his word.
- If he is unwilling to make the slightest effort to calm you down and smooth out the brewing conflicts in your relationship, then he simply does not respect your feelings and needs.
- "Busy" is the same as "donkey". And "ass" is the same as the guy you're dating.
- You deserve a fucking call.
3. He doesn't like you that much if he doesn't acknowledge the fact that you're dating.
Spending time together doesn't mean dating
11. Excuse like "He just went through a painful breakup."
He may be one of your closest friends, but as a man, he is not that infatuated with you. Beware of the word "friend". It is often used by men or women who are in love with these men to justify their most piggy behaviour. When choosing friends, I prefer people who don't upset me.
12. Excuse like "But we're really dating"
Men, just like women, seek to find a sense of security and security when they see a relationship become serious. One common way to achieve this is to lay claim to a loved one. A man who is truly infatuated with you will want you to belong to him completely. What's wrong with that, girls?
13. "It's better than nothing" excuse
Let me remind you: you need a man who wants you, calls you regularly, and makes you feel like the sexiest and most desirable woman in the world. He longs to see you more and more often, because each time his feeling grows stronger, growing from sympathy into true love. A relationship in which you meet a man once every two weeks or once a month, without feeling any love or sympathy from him, can last a day, or a week, or a month. But can they last a lifetime?
14. One hundred percent of the men surveyed said that the fear of a serious relationship has never kept them from starting new novel. One young man even remarked: “Fear of a serious relationship is one of the myths big city". And another guy said, "That's what we say to girls we don't really like."
- Men talk about their feelings, even if you refuse to listen or do not believe their confessions. "I'm not ready for a serious relationship" means "I'm not ready for a serious relationship with you or "I'm not sure you're the right woman for me." (I am sorry.)
- "Better than nothing" should not suit you.
- If you don't understand what's going on in your relationship, then it's okay to slow down and ask him a few questions.
- Smells like uncertainty? Don't expect good.
- There is one guy in the world who wants to tell everyone and everyone that he is your boyfriend. Stop fooling around, go find him.
4. He doesn't like you that much if he doesn't want to have sex with you.
If a man likes a woman, he always wants to touch her.
Dear ladies, you have already met and will meet a great many men. I hate to tell you this, but some of these men will just decide you're not their type. And none of those men who don't like you will ever tell you about it. And he will say that ... he is afraid, worried, languishing from fatigue, in pain from a broken leg, suffering from a cold, afraid (again). But the truth, simple, cruel and bitter, is clear as daylight: you do not attract him, and he does not want to hurt you.
15. Excuse like "He's afraid he'll get hurt again"
Is he afraid? Yes, he is afraid to offend you. That is why he did not clarify the situation with your relationship. Perhaps he is even trying to make himself feel at least something for you, talking about his love and that he does not want to lose you, but he could just as well sign your diary. He loves you as a friend. If he loved you as a woman, he would not be able to control himself and would have a whirlwind romance with you, despite all the fears and unpleasant memories.
16. Excuse like "I'm driving him so crazy he doesn't show any interest"
Of course, many people have had to suffer in the past, and now they are afraid of a serious relationship. But you know what? If a man really likes you, nothing will stop him from achieving you, even the fear of a serious relationship. If he's really in big trouble about it, he might go for pointless treatment, but he'll never keep you in the dark.
17. Excuse like "But it's so cool"
It used to be that a woman refuses to have sex when she wants to gain power over a man. It seems that the representatives of the stronger sex also learned to use it. If a guy, lying on the couch with you, joyfully eats cookies and watches a movie (and is not gay at the same time), then you simply do not attract him.
18. Excuse like "He finds a bunch of explanations for everything"
You can believe his excuses if you want, but first ask yourself a couple of questions. Are you satisfied with such relationships? The most important thing here is do you want to feel this way, perhaps for the rest of your life? Sex is also one of the greatest pleasures a person can experience. Therefore, it is at least strange when the person you are dating interferes with your enjoyment.
19. Remember:
- People talk about who they really are all the time. If a man tells you that monogamy is not for him, then there is no reason not to believe him.
- Communication is great. But if communication is combined with sex - it's even better. Call a spade a spade, or rather, call a friend a friend. And find yourself a friend who can't resist touching you.
- If you have low self-esteem, then you will have to spend more time improving it than looking for a new boyfriend. So prioritize according to your needs.
- If you are tempted by the thought of a thousand and one nights spent in the arms (and only) of some man, then get yourself a puppy.
- Hot little thing, there is a man walking around who really wants to make love to you.
5. He doesn't like you that much if he sleeps with another woman.
There is no truly compelling excuse for cheating.
Whatever problems darken your relationship, they do not give him the right to make love with another woman. Don't ask what's wrong with you. You don't have to take the blame. And if he tells you that it happened by accident, then remember: betrayal is not accidental. This is not an accident like "I stumbled, and I was sucked in by a swamp called Treason." He planned and executed it, fully aware that it could end your relationship. Remember: if he sleeps with another woman without your permission and approval, then he is acting not just like a man who is not so passionate about you, but like a man who is not interested in you at all.
20. Excuse like "He has no excuse and he knows it"
Change is bad. And the inability to explain why you cheated on a person is even worse. If one red flag isn't enough for you, how about two? Don't date men who don't know why they did something.
21. Excuse like “But I got fat”
I am completely sure that you need to lose 90 kg in the form of your worthless boyfriend, and not at all the twenty kilos that he talks about. He cheated on you and called you fat. How much humiliation can a person endure? If something in your relationship does not suit him, then he should talk about it with you, instead of seeking solace in the vagina of a strange woman. Also, think about how he will react if you get pregnant, get old, or have a few wrinkles? Or if you dye your hair a color he doesn't like? Get rid of this loser immediately, or I myself will come to your house and throw him out of there.
22. Excuse like "He needs more sex than me"
There is no excuse for him cheating on you. Dot. There are many ways to solve this rather common problem that arises from the difference in sexual appetites. As a rule, people start by talking frankly about this topic, and everyone agrees to do everything in his power to make the partner happy. And you don't have to jump into bed with someone else!
23. Excuse like "But at least he knew her"
I explain in other words: it doesn’t matter if he loves you or not. He has made it clear to you how he feels about your novel. He went along with his feelings and arranged everything so that he could be alone with another woman, kiss her, take off her clothes and do everything else that usually happens when two adults have sex. Can you continue to love him after this?
24. One hundred percent of the men surveyed reported that they had never made love to a woman by pure chance. (But many of them wanted to know how such an accident occurs and what needs to be done to take advantage of it.)
- There is no excuse for change. Let me repeat: there is no excuse for cheating. Now say it yourself: there is no excuse for cheating.
- The only thing you are responsible for in the moral fall of another person is your own feelings.
- Change is change. It does not matter with whom he cheated on you and how many times this happened.
- Every time it becomes easier to change. It is difficult only the first time, when you feel remorse and guilt because you did not justify the trust of another person.
- Deceivers are never happy. (Because they are all bastards.)
- An unfaithful man first of all cheats on himself, since he cannot build a normal relationship with you.
6. He doesn't like you that much if he only wants to see you when he's drunk.
If he likes you, he will seek to see you when his brain is not clouded by alcohol fumes. If your clown puts on a red nose every time it comes to intimacy, then this indicates that there are serious problems in your relationship.
25. Excuse like "But I like it when he's drunk."
If, sitting in a bar, he drunk says something like: “Baby, you are so beautiful!” and at the same time hugs you a little tighter than it should be, then it’s time to learn something: you can’t believe everything that a man says when he is drunk. And listen to the former bad guy: "bad boys" are called bad because they have a lot of trouble, no feeling dignity, besides, they absolutely do not believe in sincere love relationship, but very often they dress cool and drive cool cars. Do you really need this one?
26. Excuse like “At least he doesn’t drink the strongest drinks.”
Don't be fooled. A guy who doesn't fall off his feet and piss in his pants from drinking shouldn't get away with silently turning off his brains to others, more the easy way every time you are together. It's still intoxication, it's still a desire to avoid responsibility, and it's still not good for you.
27. Remember:
- His words mean nothing if he said them while drunk. "I love you" or the like, spoken under the influence of any drink stronger than grape juice, has no power in court and in real life.
- The use of alcohol and drugs is not the way to the innermost feelings of a person. Otherwise, people would not break empty beer bottles on their heads and try to touch the flames of fire to find out if they feel something or not.
- If he wants to see you, communicate with you, have sex with you only when he is tipsy, this is not love, this is sport.
- The bad guys aren't called bad guys for nothing.
- You deserve a man who doesn't need to be pumped up to spend time with you.
7. He doesn't like you that much if he doesn't want to marry you.
Love cures the manic disease of commitment
Each of your former men who told you that he does not want to marry, or does not believe in marriage, or he has doubts about marriage, someday he will certainly bind himself with sacred bonds. Just not with you. Because he's not saying that he doesn't want to get married at all. He says that he does not want to marry you.
28. Excuse like "It's getting really complicated now"
If you focus on the state of your finances when choosing the time for the wedding, this auspicious period will never come. If a boyfriend is using a lack of money as an excuse not to marry you, then it is your relationship that is at risk, not his bank account.
29. Excuse like "But he's all like himself."
If you have to sit and think about how to start a conversation about marriage with a person with whom you have been in a close relationship for quite some time, then this is a wake-up call. Call him immediately straight Talk and find out the relationship. Then, as soon as you are ready, go in search of a person whose only thoughts will be occupied with how you feel.
30. Dilemma like "Is this really an excuse not to get married?"
Marriage is a tradition that we inherited from previous generations That's why marriage has so many opponents. So be it: if a man is categorically against marriage, and you are in favor with both hands, then please make sure that behind his unwillingness to marry lies only dislike for the very institution of marriage, and not any other feelings or their absence.
31. Excuse like "I'm just not ready yet"
I hate to tell you about this, but he does not want to rush for just one reason: he is still not sure that you are the one.
32. Excuse like "He's seen enough of other failed marriages"
For worthy man meeting a woman with whom he wants to share his life always becomes a real event. And, probably, if he realizes that this is exactly the woman, he will not immediately tell her that the mere thought of registering their relationship disgusts him.
33. One hundred percent of the men surveyed admitted that they would no doubt offer their hand and heart to a woman if they were completely sure that she was the love of their life. One representative of the stronger sex said: “What kind of idiot do you have to be in order not to marry the woman you love?”
- "Does not want to marry" and "Does not want to marry me" are two different things. Make sure that you correctly determine which category your chosen one belongs to.
- If you have opposing views on marriage, then there are sure to be other issues that will lead to disagreement. It's time to make a problem list.
- If nothing changes in your relationship, then what are you waiting for?
- Somewhere on earth there is a man who wants to marry you.
8. He doesn't like you that much if he dumped you.
"I don't want to be with you" still means exactly that.
34. "He needs me" excuse
Do not be satisfied that he is bored without you. He must be bored. You are so unique. And yet he, as he was, and remained the man who left you. Remember, there is only one reason he can miss remembering you: he thinks that he does not want to spend this day with you.
35. Excuse like “After such a decision is much easier.”
If he dates you, asks you on dates, leaves you and continues to sleep with you, which, in essence, removes any responsibility from him for your feelings for him. There is one thing that a young man will never do if he cannot imagine his life without you: he will never leave you. The only way for you to know if you love yourself is to get rid of him, and as quickly as possible.
36. Excuse like "But everyone does it"
Stop holding on to his cock, get dressed and quickly go home to your best friend. And don't look for an excuse to stay with him. And do not think that all this crazy passion will inevitably lead to the fact that you will be together again. Oh yes, sex after a breakup is not bad at all, because it's great to sleep with someone you know. It's also great to sleep with a person you feel for strong feelings. This combination makes sex after parting so bright. But now you know that because of this, a real confusion arises in the head and you begin to feel terrible. Face the truth: you are a woman, and women do not know how to separate love and sex. And don't make those mistakes again. Got it? He doesn't like you that much. He is much more into a very bad idea that masquerades as a very good idea, namely - sex after parting. Like this.
37. Excuse like "But then he wants to go back"
Unfortunately, after you break up, your boyfriend starts looking for something better. And when he fails, he is seized by loneliness and returns "home". It doesn't sound like he likes you very much. He just really doesn't like being alone.
38. Excuse like "I refuse to accept the fact that he left me"
I'm sorry he left you. By trying again and again to get him back, you make your ex-boyfriend think: “What the hell did I find in this crazy bitch?” Remember one simple piece of advice, ladies: always be on top. Never go crazy. Well, in fact, this is not even one, but two whole pieces of advice. But trust me, you will never regret listening to them. At the very least, it will save you from the unpleasant memories of how you cut into pieces his clothes or threw away all the photos with him.
39. Remember:
- You can't prevent a breakup by talking. Debating won't help here. Termination of relations is a final decision, and it is not subject to appeal.
- Sex after a breakup doesn't mean you're back together.
- Stop talking to him. Let him miss you.
- You don't need to remind him how great you are.
- He can take care of his cat himself.
- "Posh woman" will never torment his answering machine.
- Somewhere, a young man is waiting for you, who will be just happy that you did not get back together with your terribly nasty ex-boyfriend.
9. He doesn't like you that much if he just up and disappeared.
Sometimes you have to put an end
Well, everything is very clear here. He made it clear to you that you are so not his type that he didn't even bother to leave you any news about himself. The only thing you have to take away from this love story, is the fact that he decided to leave you. And he did not have the courage to tell you about it, looking into your eyes. Case is closed.
40. Justification like “Maybe he died”
There is nothing worse than not getting a response from a loved one. But the trouble is that the lack of an answer is the answer for you. Perhaps he did not write farewell letter, but his silence speaks more clearly: "I don't like you." The only reason why you should write to him again is the desire to receive an explicit refusal, now in verbal form. Have you forgotten? You are too busy with your fans and you don't have time for such nonsense.
41. Excuse like "So, it turns out I can't even fight him one last time?"
At first, it may seem that you will feel better if you call him and make a scandal. You may feel like you let him get away with it. But trust me, nothing you want to tell him will come as a revelation to him. And you already have something to spend your time on.
42. "But I just want an answer" excuse
Do you deserve to know what really happened? Undoubtedly. I can tell you what happened: you dated terrible person. The easiest way to correct this mistake is to draw certain conclusions for yourself, live on and continue to be more selective in choosing a partner. Do it all quickly without wasting a minute of your precious time.
43. One hundred percent of the males interviewed who "disappeared" from the woman's field of vision stated that they were fully aware that they had done something terrible, and no phone calls and belated conversations would not change their minds.
- Perhaps he really is in the hospital, suffering from amnesia, but most likely he is just not that interested in you.
- The absence of an answer is his answer to you.
- Don't give him the opportunity to reject you again.
- Let his mother arrange scandals for him. And you are too busy for that.
- There is no mystery here: he just left your life, and he was not worthy of you.
10. He doesn't like you that much if he's married (this includes all the other, most incredible reasons why he can't be with you)
If you cannot love each other freely and openly, then that is not true love. No matter how strong and sincere your feelings for another person may be, if he cannot answer them honestly and fully, that is mutual love These feelings don't mean a thing.
44. Excuse like "But his wife is such a bitch!"
As unhappy as his marriage was, and as awful as his wife treated him, it certainly wasn't all that bad, otherwise he would have left her a long time ago. Sincere love relationships do not deserve to be hidden. Find yourself a man who will not hide his feelings.
45. Excuse like "But he's such a nice person"
Please don't try to ignore this fact. He is married to another woman. I know you are not like everyone else, and in your case everything is different, but the fact remains: he is married. If in your entire life you are ready to stop at a red light only once, then this is exactly the case. It's just that for everyone who plays this game, the stakes are too high.
46. "I just have to wait" excuse
If, at a certain stage in the development of relations, it comes to “waiting for him,” this is an alarming signal. It's not a stock you're going to invest in. He is a man whose heart must be open enough to be ready to meet you and fall madly in love with you. If someone really likes you, he will quickly solve all his problems and make a lot of efforts so as not to lose you.
47. Remember:
- He is married.
- If he doesn't belong to you wholly and completely, then he belongs to her.
- There are a lot of cool and gentle single men in the world. Try to meet one of them.
- If a man yells and curses at ex-wife or mourning a previous girlfriend, go to the movies with someone else.
- He is married.
- No need to join the ranks of those same women.
- You are not easy to forget. Let him find you when he is ready for a new relationship.
11. He doesn’t like you that much if he acts like a selfish egoist, braggart or just like a big jerk
If he really loves you, he will do his best to make you happy.
48. Excuse like “But he really wants to get better.”
Loving people try to treat each other well and even enjoy showing tenderness and care for their loved ones. If your partner is very bad at this, then in the end you reap the same benefits as in the situation called "He doesn't like you that much."
49. Excuse like “But he was just raised that way”
It doesn't have to be that he's crazy about your CD collection. It doesn't have to be that he likes all your shoes. But any full-fledged and prudent man simply has to make an effort on himself and fall in love with your friends and your family, especially if they are all such wonderful people.
50. Excuse like “But he will change”
Short temper is not a temporary problem. People who yell at others simply don't know how to control themselves and need psychiatric help. People who yell at others feel they have a right to do so. Hey, beauty, do you really want to create such a family?
51. Excuse like “After all, what matters is what happens between us alone.”
Why be with someone who needs to humiliate you in order to feel their own superiority? Especially in front of friends! And why should you pay attention to the fact that he treats you better when you are alone? After all, he is only waiting for how to bring you to the people in order to humiliate you. Drop it! Go to college and write a diploma on the topic: "How to find a man who is not ashamed to show his friends."
52. "But he's just trying to help" excuse
Offensive is not only such behavior when a man beats a woman. It can and should also be considered offensive behavior when a man yells at a woman, publicly humiliates her, or reminds her that she is too fat, thereby making her feel unattractive. It's very hard to believe what you deserve true love when someone is trying their best to convince you that you don’t deserve anything in this life at all. But, as I see it, all the exhortations to part with him still do not work on you. So for starters, just realize that you are too good for such a relationship. You are too good for this kind of relationship.
53. Excuse like "He just hasn't found himself yet"
54. Excuse like "Maybe it's one of his little oddities!"
You will surely meet men who do not like hugging, kissing or having sex. You will spend a lot of time trying to figure out how to deal with this and whether you are the cause of this behavior. Or you simply come to the conclusion that these people do not like doing what you think is an integral part of a fulfilling life, and you go in search of such a person who shares your views.
The joke goes like this: "Hey, Björk called, she wants to take her dress back." And the insult is like this: “God, well, you are corroded!” But the most important thing is to understand what you need. You all definitely deserve better treatment!
55. One hundred percent of the men surveyed said they had never tried to humiliate or upset a woman they really liked. And this is the most important thing.
- Don't over complicate it hard life by sharing it with a person who gives you a lot of trouble.
- You are worthy of such a man who in any situation will behave with you as it should. (Don't forget that you should treat him well too.)
- There is no reason to yell at another person unless they are in mortal danger.
- Assholes belong in the circus, not in your apartment.
- You already have one ass, why do you need a second one?
- By getting rid of useless people, you will have a lot of free time that you can spend on what gives you pleasure.
- Believe in yourself. How could it be otherwise?
13. So what do you do?
56. Then you ask: “What if next novel won't happen at all?" And we will answer: “Send these terrible thoughts on a long voyage on a ship that will surely sink, because it is destined to crash on the reefs of the Isle of Sorrow. And we don't want you on this ship."
Your new requirements:
- I will not date a person who does not invite me on dates.
- I will not date a man who makes me wait hours for his call.
- I won't date someone who isn't sure they want to date me.
- I will not date a person who makes me feel sexually unattractive.
- I will not date a person who abuses alcohol or drugs, so this makes me uncomfortable.
- I will not date a person who is afraid to make future plans with me.
- Under no circumstances will I waste time on a person who has already rejected me once.
- I will not date a married man.
- I will not date a man if he is not really a kind, sincere and gentle person.
And now it's your turn. Only you know what other requirements you want to make to your future chosen one. Write them all down. And don't forget about them.
57. DICTIONARY
Friend
This should mean the following: I would never intentionally do anything that could hurt you.
Busy
This should mean the following: today was my inauguration as President of the United States.
In some cases, this means: I just don't like you that much.
Bad guy
It should mean: The guy to stay away from.
In some cases, this means: The guy you need to stay away from.
I am not ready
It should mean: I can't find my pants.
In some cases, this means: I just don't like you that much.
Call me
It should mean this: I accidentally dropped my cell phone off a cliff into the ocean.
In some cases, this means: I just don't like you that much.
I don't like your family
It should mean: I don't want to meet your mother.
In some cases, this means: I just don't like you that much.
I'm afraid of intimacy
This should mean the following: I am really very afraid of intimacy.
In some cases, this means: I just don't like you that much.
And you will be happy!
The post is based on the book by Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuchillo He Just Doesn't Like You. The whole truth about men. We recommend reading the entire book.
It would seem that there are shoes that suit everyone, under everything, and are an indispensable part modern images- ballet shoes. Well, where without them? They ennoble jeans, remove unnecessary pathos from silk dresses, give chic and tenderness to the now so popular looks with military or sweatpants...
Certainly.
When it looks like this: 
Well, or if you are Olivia Palermo: 
And if not? If genetics gave you such or similar (quite, by the way, pretty) legs? 
Or if you are Christina Aguilera? 
Then ballet flats are not such an obvious choice.
There are two difficulties here: a wide foot and a non-thin ankle. Why do I not write a wide ankle - because in ballet shoes it is even quite normal, the middle leg looks heavier, and the ankle visually looks wider, in contrast to the flat sole.
If you are comfortable in them and these little things do not bother you - okay, wear them to your health. If your own appearance in the mirror causes displeasure, but you still want to somehow cope with ballet flats and make them work in favor, and not against the elegance of the image, then there are several options.
First: do not wear completely flat ballet flats. Even a very slight instep collects the foot and softens the contrast of a thin sole and a "thick" ankle, while retaining all the advantages and ideas of images with ballet flats. Besides, it's more convenient.
These are, for example: 
(Taryn Rose)
Or such 
(Taryn Rose)
will look much more complimentary.
Here's another a good option, with small platform 
(Gabor)
This 
looks definitely better than this 
although both there and there the ankle is far from ideal.
Second: wear deep ballet flats. Options in which the foot is very open, the beginning of the toes is visible, or the edges of the foot fall out of the shoe are not suitable.
This is better not to: 
If there are bones, then like this too: 
The edge of the shoe should be above the bone, close it, and not crash - this is both ugly and very painful! No need to wear in anything, stretch and endure, if the edge of the shoe falls exactly on the bone, these are simply not your shoes. You can't tame them, give them to someone.
These ballet shoes are actually great for a wide foot, why they were put on a narrow one is not clear: 
This is also very good: 
Third: any transverse straps are also better not needed. Otherwise we get this: 
A non-functional detail, which is supposed to decorate the legs, does not add anything good to them.
Fourth: the shape of the neckline is better not straight and not round, but oval, elongated along the length of the foot.
Here is a not very good shape - the foot looks wide and short: 
Four pictures above are just an illustration of the correct cutout for a wide foot, which does not even look at all on a narrow one - the model's legs completely drowned in them. Girl, give these great shoes to people with wide feet, they don't fit you!
Fifth: maybe it’s better not to wear ballet flats at all? Loafers almost always do the same job perfectly. At the same time, the cutout pattern visually divides the surface of a wide foot into three narrow segments and removes the bones from the field of view. 
These are the observations and conclusions. Of course, it would be nice not to forget about the need to support the arch of the foot, otherwise even the most Beautiful legs in the end, they can become patients of an orthopedic doctor, which the author of the article does not wish you at all!
Ajax Dance and Sports Club celebrates its fourth birthday creative evening in DC them. Lenin. AJAX unites two dance directions: ballroom dancing (European and Latin American programs) and modern dances (pop, jazz, modern styles). There is also a Solo-Latina group for adults.
The club is run by its founder Yana Koklenkova. Yana is not only a choreographer, but also a member of the board of judges of the Russian Dance Sports Union for sports ballroom dancing and a judge of the All-Russian Dance Organization for modern trends.
School choreographer contemporary dance – Irina Korobkova, also a judge of the All-Russian Dance Organization for Modern Trends and a member of the Presidium of Russian Sports Choreography.
Yana Koklenkova, founder of the Ajax dance and sports club:
The team was founded in 2013. The club is a member of the Dance Sports Federation of the Vladimir Region and the All-Russian Dance Organization. Today, TSC "AJAX" unites two dance directions. The age of the team members is from 3 to 15 years. TSK is the winner and prize-winner of Regional, Russian and All-Russian competitions and tournaments. The piggy bank of the club has more than 200 cups. The team of TSC "AJAX" - permanent member ORTO competitions in modern trends and STSR tournaments in sports ballroom dancing. The team has a warm, creative and friendly atmosphere.
The concert was opened by the youngest students of the club. A large crowd of young dancers is a touching sight. In addition, very young children were already standing in front of a large hall, demonstrating, albeit simple, but still dance moves.
Yana Koklenkova, founder of the dance and sports club "Ajax":
"JAX" started its dance season right from the reporting event. It's not easy when the kids are just after summer holidays. It is necessary not only to get into shape for the dancers, but also to learn the material offered by them, to enter into the images, to work out all the steps ... But we did it! Showed everything that was planned. Lots of new numbers released.
Every year we approach our concerts not easy, but with some theme. Due to the fact that at the end of the past dance year we were very busy with competitions and went to tournaments a lot, we had to reschedule reporting concert for September. And they called it SIMPLE. We thought it would be easy. Just a concert. It's nice that, according to the reviews after the concert, it turned out not so easy! Positive reviews, the growth of skill, aesthetics and interest saw our audience!
suit design, storyline, music, composition we invent ourselves! We put our whole soul into every room!
TSC "AJAX" are children in love with dance art, supportive and empathetic parents, and for them it's not just a hobby, it's a way of life.
One of the mottos of TSC:
We have adrenaline in our blood, and our AJAX is invincible!
Photographer Igor Volkov
